During hurricane katrina my family was scattered everywhere and my cell phone was my only connection to them..(bill was high) for 2 months....and my husband cut it off for good with no intentions on getting me another.....do you think it's unfair and controling? Never done this before!! but he has :(.....@ home mom.
2006-07-10 17:15:13 · 16 answers · asked by Cookie48 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave mr.control show him you can't be messed with.Disappear for several hours and not tell him where you were bring up if you had a cellphone he could of contacted you.Make him sleep on the couch for a week or two and tell him that untill he gives you your cell back that is his new room.Make sure you lock you're door each night so he can't sneak in and sleep there.
2006-07-10 17:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by movin12006 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are two sides to be considered. One is, maybe he was tight in finances and wasn't able to pay the bill. Cell phone bills can be quite high when you do during the daytime. On the other hand, if he is quite well off and did this to punish you, then I think he is a control freak. Maybe you should confront him and ask him the reason. Ask him what he would have done if the same thing happened to his family during this hurricane season.
2006-07-11 00:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by gotbolder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I read the first part of your question, I thought, "what an a**hole." But then I read the rest of it. Get a job. Get out of the house and get a job. Then you can help pay bills instead of running them up for him to pay. Had you been a little bit responsible with it, he wouldn't have freaked. Maybe you should think about how you will be feeding and clothing the kids, if you talk too much on the phone.
2006-07-11 00:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Maitri* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know it was the only link between your family and you?
Your name is on all of the credit cards, get another one, an expensive one. Or you could buy one of those pay as you go phones.
You need a phone because emergency situations.
2006-07-11 00:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Average Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm u need to make him understand tat u r worried abt ur family n do u work to contribute to pay the high bill..maybe ur hubby n ur mother in law could not cope with the extra expenditure..
2006-07-11 00:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own cell phone. Pay your own bill. Become independent. He is controlling and unreasonable if he didn't discuss the situation with you first.
2006-07-11 00:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Splendid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you get a prepay phone. That way you don't spend more than you can afford. You still have a phone to connect with your family but you won't go overboard yakking too long.
2006-07-11 00:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by laylamami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how high was the bill and do you work to contribute to the family income. those are considerations that need to be taken into account.
2006-07-11 00:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by starla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS VERY CONTROLLING! My husband would NEVER do that to me!! I can not believe that! MY GOODNESS! You need to get your own cell phone, and let him know that you dont have to have him to get one! OOO...That makes me mad! Sorry!
2006-07-11 00:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by tnycourtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
solve that get your own phone in your name and pay your own bill he want be able to take it from you then
2006-07-11 00:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋