how many of you would marry someone because of sex.
2006-07-10 17:35:31 · 25 answers · asked by Sara B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope, there needs to be more: friendship, understanding, similar interests, and that special chemistry. Just good sex is not enough, and if you have to ask, don't marry the person. Your heart should tell you you want to be with this person for a long long time, and not just in bed.
2006-07-10 17:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. Guess what? i am still married to the same lady. we been together for 22 years this Oct. Married for 18 years this july 22.
To add to this i can not wait to go at it again. My wife will tell you..
She thinks i am crazy .I am about her .we have also a good friendship,but the sex is great. we have been doing it since we were teens. We have a son that is almost 21 years. A son that is 17 and a daughter that will turn 13 in 2 weeks. How is that for long time just for sex ?
2006-07-10 19:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by plumbman_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a young man I married my first wife for sex. I thought I shouldn't have sex until I was married so we got married to have sex. It was a disaster. The sex was wonderful but we didn't have any other type of relationship built to get us through the hard times. Eventually we divorced. Don't marry someone because of the desire to have sex with them. Don't' marry someone because they are good looking. Don't marry someone because they are your religious gurus. All will let you down when life rolls around and you need something deeper in life than one or two attractions. Good Luck
2006-07-10 17:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not just for the sex. I married for love and only love sex was great but the love was first. what happens when the other one gets sick and you can not have sex any more. You leave them after 15 years? nah love
2006-07-10 17:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
Sex requires that love go with it, if you want it to be that special stuff. Good sex is not sufficient to be with another person as a mate. There is a whole lot of other stuff to deal with so you better have some real strong feelings for the other person to be able to make it work!
2006-07-10 17:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. Although sex is important. I would marry someone for love.
2006-07-10 17:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definatly wouldn't that is wrong i think so. you should marry for love if you really love that person.. if you really going to get married just for sex then you should just have a few different partners instead of marrying for it
2006-07-10 17:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by sarah e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a part in a relationship, but eventually it slowly goes away. i wouldnt marry for sex. Marry for love
2006-07-10 17:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by amberpurkey2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if I can get adivorce in about 6 months. you marry for other reasons as well as sex,not as the sole reason.
2006-07-10 17:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by stratisnj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after being married for 5 years... Don't just marry for sex... Ya, that is a great most of the time but make sure they are also you best friend and you can COMMUNICATE with them... Key word...
2006-07-10 17:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by sherilyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋