Marriage & Divorce - 10 July 2006

I have been with my partner for 4 1/2 yrs now. My divorce got finalized on Dec/05. He wants to get divorced but since we have a big mortgage pymt and he's the one in charge in giving the pymt, he says he has no money to pay for the divorce. He asked me if I would pay for it. Would that look bad or not? He wants to get married but we have to wait until he is divorced. Should I pay for it?

2006-07-10 11:25:56 · 13 answers · asked by yo_010180 2

month for child support for 12 years and made 12.00 per hour at a job. You on the other hand received NO child support when you got your divorce. Now, this person is raising cain that she is on hard times cause she is no longer getting support now . How would you shut this anoying person up when she comes over to visit without hurting her feelings?? I told her she was lucky as I never got any support for my child and she told me that I had remarried and didn't need it. Now what do you think I should tell her ??

2006-07-10 11:22:25 · 4 answers · asked by ₦âħí»€G 6

I am 6 and 1/2 months pregnant and found my husband packing condoms in his suitcase when he was going abroad to visit his family. He lied to me telling me he didn't know that they were there and that I must have packed them even though I begged him to tell the truth. The next day he sent me a quick text saying sorry and that he was just taking them to try his luck. I left our home before he came back from work and the next day he went abroad. I've been a mess ever since but he has hardly called in the space of 2 weeks and the calls lasted less than a minute with him just asking how the family was. I told him that I had sent him an email to tell him how I felt and what was going to happen to our relationship but he hasn't bothered to read it. We have a 7 yr old daughter and have just celebrated our 8th wedding aniversary. I also found an empty condom wrapper in his diary a few weeks ago and he told me that someone had planted it there.

2006-07-10 11:21:18 · 111 answers · asked by lovetotravel77 1

My husband and i have been together since high school we have been married for five years. He is in the millitary and we are apart alot. For the first two years things were great we were so in love then he got stationed in GA. He met someone down there and he cheated on me with her. when I found out we talked about it we decided to work things out then he cheeated with her again. Later he was deployed to iraq thats when I found out through his mother that girl had just had his baby hat do i do.

2006-07-10 11:20:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 11:11:15 · 10 answers · asked by rainfingers 4

2006-07-10 11:04:26 · 13 answers · asked by melissa 6

Especially for when your SO is being an as*hole :(

2006-07-10 11:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anna 2

2006-07-10 10:55:55 · 44 answers · asked by **What??** 4

and for me 1 time is good enough? has any women out there been in this situation and what can i do to be more sexually active(i'm young but i'd rather go to sleep early than have sex I KNOW something is wrong with this picture and it's not him he is HOT alot of women think so HELP)

2006-07-10 10:55:26 · 27 answers · asked by rizo21 2

My hubby and I had some issues.His ex chick left a msg saying that she didn't want him to call her only because he is upset with me.(I know she's a lil out there-my hubby and I had been great friends for 5yrs b4 we got married and he told me about their relationship)So I confrnted him and first he denied talking to her.Then when I got the cell phone bill he admitted to talking to her but that was it. I called her and she told me that she saw him three weeks b4 and that they had some drinks at a restaurant then slept with him at some hotel. She couldnt give me the name of the hotel but she told me what he was wearing and knew what pics he had in his wallet. He denies ever seeing her. Would a guy really keep lying, even if they didn't actually cheat?I believe he saw her but I dont believe he slept with her. On her msg that I heard she said she still loves him.I'm sure she would tell me anything to cause probs.I know hes doesnt wanna hurt me.Have u lied b4 even tho the truth is 4giveable?

2006-07-10 10:54:22 · 5 answers · asked by ready4answers 1

We haven't been married that long but he is already dishonest and does things behind my back.

2006-07-10 10:30:14 · 37 answers · asked by Courtney T 2

Here's the thing my husband and I are best friends with a couple (well a few different ones) and at our party on Friday night my best friend (we'll call her) mela, who her and her husband have been going through some rough times. You see it really starts a few months ago, Mela cheated on her husband of 6 years w/ a co-worker. She got caught and they (to shorten it up) decided to stay together. Now as her best friend, I have been trying to support them in all this. Ok back to friday night, my hubby and I were having a summer bbq party, after a few drinks a couple (8) of us climbed into the hot tub. we all relaxed and had a good time. Well yesterday mela and I went shopping she told me that in the hottub she was rubbing another of our single friends...penis. I was shocked. After all the recent **** they have worked out! why? my ?'s you ask....what should I do? tell her husband? leave it alone? talk with her? Please help!

2006-07-10 10:27:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the deal: I work a full time job and a part time job. My full time job direct deposits payroll so I never even see my check. My part time job mails my check, my husband gets it-I never see it. If I want money or need money, I have to ask permission. I am not allowed to use my credit card or the debt card. Ever. So I found some cash at home that was labelled "kelly taxes"-it's money he set aside from my second job to cover takes on that check, which amount to only 150 bucks a month. I grabbed about $50.00 out of it and now he is having a duck fit. How do I shut him up about it?

2006-07-10 10:22:36 · 16 answers · asked by kelly24592 5

i make enough to support us both, my house and land and cars are paid for.the ex doesnt work and married a dead beat guy that can't even see his own kids.she tells our daughter that she doesnt have enough gas to come and pick her up on their weekends so my daughter ask me to give her mom gas money ...usually 20 or 30 dollars ...so i do it ....and i hate it ...late one nite we got into an arguement over the phone and my daughter over heard us.. argueing about child support .i thought she was asleep ..but i heard her crying and tried to comfort her and she told me that her mom told her that if your dad takes me to court"i'll be thrown in jail"..my daughter was crying her eyes out telling me."please dont put mommy in jail"...what the hell do i do ??? i always thought of it as support for the child .fare is fare right. if the tables where turned i'd be in jail.. no i'd pay. lol, besides its only 24 dollars a week...i don't want to hurt my 9 yr old ..x if you r reading this kiss my azz!!!!!

2006-07-10 10:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well it turns out that my hub and I have been married from 4 years. We have a common friends who have also been married from 4 years. Actually about 15 months ago I found the woman at my place sitting on my sofa kissing and making out with my hub. I saw it all for what was 5 minutes of a passionate makeout. Then i even heard my hub tell her later on at parties that the kiss they had was it, and he can't do no more with her but he really likes her alot. At every party afterthat where wehave met all in public, he always hugs her, stares in her eyes, observes her, he dances and grinds with her. about 8 months ago at my house the guy gave the woman a very long desperate hug it seems. the woman tried to push him and ask what he was doing as if she wanted him to stop and she was mad at him for not taking things further. my hub kept hugging her and hugging her in silence without letting her go, finally she hugged him and the both hugged then. That was done. then now we are also a

2006-07-10 10:14:22 · 14 answers · asked by katezambelli 1

I will be home in about two months. I know that it will be easier to deal with our issues when I get home, but I need to do something now.

2006-07-10 10:13:19 · 21 answers · asked by Jason R 1

I have a friend who has being married 2 my hubby's cousin for almost 6 yrs.. they have try to have kids with no results, he went to work far away from home but she didn't want to move she wanted to stay in her own house, after a couple of yrs. he used to come every weekend then every 2 weeks & so on after he stop coming maybe once every two months. We find out he had someone else & she knew too but she decided to stay like that, but how can she be in a relationship like that she is pertty & nice person & can find someone better. He is now in the town but still have contact w/ the other woman she had back there. Have you ever being & this situation before ?? If you have or are in a relationship like this one WHy are you still w/ that person?? IS it just because of the love that you feel for him or cuz you feel you can't find any one better ??? I respect everyones opinion but don't you think if he has no respect for you he might not love his wife???nothing personal just need opinios!!!

2006-07-10 10:02:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's ex filed for divorce about 2 years ago, my boyfriend didn't respond in time, and now it's uncontested, there's a paper his ex has to file but she still hasn't done it. My boyfriend does not want to wait any longer, what can he do? What papers will he need to proceed with the divorce?

2006-07-10 09:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by angelfacekisses74 1

While I was in late pregnancy with our twins he forged one of my checks to go buy drugs- because of my condition and the fact that I was trying to help him get over his addiction - ha!- I let it go. Even today my Mom says turn the other check - BUT - my attorney says if I want to protect my kids from a crack addict I have to build a case - would this be the time to hit him with a feleony? We won't reconcile - too much has been said and done- I believe he has a new piece of tail - and I have two almost 5 month old babies to care for - and I believe that can be done better without the addict. Should I or shouldn't I?

2006-07-10 09:47:51 · 10 answers · asked by a1025goodgirl 1

2006-07-10 09:45:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's 16 1/2 years old, and her mother (who lives in the U.S.) took my daughter to Mexico for vacation and they decided to just move there. I live in Texas (where we all used to reside) - just wondering how the Atty General will figure what to do with child support now?

2006-07-10 09:44:18 · 19 answers · asked by DJ 1

2006-07-10 09:41:51 · 16 answers · asked by binlohge95 1

2006-07-10 09:36:35 · 15 answers · asked by imlaura2006 1

We are about to go through a divorce in which we both feel like this is the answer to the probelms. I just want to know if I should and if anyone has had success with the friends after divorce thing. Or if it will be more trouble then it is worth.

2006-07-10 09:35:23 · 22 answers · asked by living this life 2

my husband is a awful person he is very abusive both mentally and physically and he is in jail right now for hitting me and I started talking to my ex at first jsut as friends now it has moved on to something else and I am starting to to fall in love with him again what should I DO???

2006-07-10 09:31:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 09:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by assmuncher_2 1

Do you think people can change these characteristics? Terrible with money, big spender, womanizer, selfish, addictive personality, liar? I mean if they get older into their 40's, won't they mature and maybe not do these things anymore? Can people change?

2006-07-10 09:26:08 · 9 answers · asked by 22marie22 1

my wife thinks this is strange, i say everyone does it, what da dealio?

oh and i made up a word for the act of flipping the pillow to the cool side, i call it funching what do you think?

2006-07-10 09:24:43 · 16 answers · asked by whoisgod71 3

is this normal behaviour? There mom rules their lives and they jump when she calls. She will wake them out of a dead sleep at 4 am just to get her sugar. I moved away and he says he is going to leave but it seems like he wont.

2006-07-10 09:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by Iden x 2

I'm new to this whole child support thing....I'm moving away from and breaking up with my son's dad. It's a move long-overdue and we both agree it is best for everyone. I'm concerned about child support. I heard that non-custodial parents, who work jobs that earn most of the income in tips, sometimes don't report their tips so they don't have to pay as much in support. Is this true? My son's dad is a server at a bar/restaurant and his bi-weekly checks are only $150, but he makes $50-$150 during a given shift, and he works 4-5 times a week. Is he required to report, or is this a lost cause?

2006-07-10 09:22:50 · 15 answers · asked by chaotic_mum 4