What should I do my husband wants to have sex 3-4 times a week?

Question

and for me 1 time is good enough? has any women out there been in this situation and what can i do to be more sexually active(i'm young but i'd rather go to sleep early than have sex I KNOW something is wrong with this picture and it's not him he is HOT alot of women think so HELP)

Answer 1

3-4 times a week is great some don't get it that much and want it. For the record if you don't want it that should be fine but when it comes to a man what you won't do another woman will QUICK... So for your own sake I hope you have a very faithful husband.God Bless you and good luck

Answer 2

No there are just some women that have lower sex drives that get lower with age. I can remember having sex everyday or more when I was first married and at least 3-4 times a week after years go by. Talk to him and tell him there are other things you can do to please him sexually , but don't ever tell him u don't desire him.

Answer 3

We all have different levels of sexual drive and desire. It would probably help if you two sat down and discussed your expectations and worked the situation out. Tell him you love him, find him fabulously attractive, and are concerned about his feelings. Make it clear, though, that you can't keep up at that rate, but be willing to compromise. Maybe he will settle for once or twice a week. Heck, maybe he would prefer to save up for a crazy weekend (but, for the love of all that is good, do not stiff him if he goes for that!).

Keep communication open, otherwise this is likely to become a sore spot where you resent being pressed and he resents being brushed off.

Answer 4

your sex drive will change as you age - hopefully, your husband can be patient with you, because when you turn 30 - watch out! he won't know what hit him! In the meantime, you should see a gynecologist because the pill and other things will affect your sex drive. Also, your body is naturally conditioned to sleep when you are in bed - try sex somewhere else other than in your bed and at a different time of day!

Answer 5

You better just be glad he wants it that much..because he could slip out somenight when you won`t give it up...So, honey i have 4 kids and a real sexy husband and 3-4 times a week is not bad at all..when you talk about 7 days a week then you need to say something to him..Until then you just better be lucky you have a man that wants to have sex that much...

Answer 6

Make it fun for you too , tell exactly what you want .That's a good thing hes interested in you like that and you still turn him on .There's nothing wrong with you some people just have higher sex thrives than others. Talk to him tell what you feel ,without hurting his feelings.

Answer 7

If you're too tired at night, then have sex at other times... when you first wake up, in the shower, lunchtime quickies... make it fun! Sex shouldn't be limited to nighttime, after a long, tiresome day.

Answer 8

I've found that my sex drive fluctuates....it's been like that and less, and also more. Through it all, it's been important to me to balance out my needs and his, which is something only you can do. Sometimes cornering him for a quickie when he's rushed for time works well.

Answer 9

Enjoy it. You could start it earlier in the night so you can get to sleep early. OR just tell him you don't want it that often.

Answer 10

Sure sounds like a problem. Talk to him and "work" out something that is acceptable for both of you. Remember, marriage is give and take!