I have been with my partner for 4 1/2 yrs now. My divorce got finalized on Dec/05. He wants to get divorced but since we have a big mortgage pymt and he's the one in charge in giving the pymt, he says he has no money to pay for the divorce. He asked me if I would pay for it. Would that look bad or not? He wants to get married but we have to wait until he is divorced. Should I pay for it?
2006-07-10 11:25:56 · 13 answers · asked by yo_010180 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no. it's his problem, he should resolve it. tell him you're tapped out.
2006-07-10 11:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you would think that his divorce would be more important to him because a divorce from his last wife means he can marry you! He may really not see a problem with having you pay for his divorce. If the reason is sincere, and he really does want to be divorced and to remarry you, then whats the problem? But only do it if it really does not bother you. don't do it if it something that will continue to bother you down the road.
Good luck!
2006-07-10 18:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by ilovedragonflies6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. If he wants out of his divorce so bad he will do whatever he has to do to get his divorce final.
2006-07-10 19:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not, if you are in a committed relationship and treat each others money as if you are partners (like him paying the mortgage) then there is nothing wrong with it.
2006-07-10 18:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just help pay some of the mortgage and let him pay for his divorce. then you won't actually be paying for it. you'll be paying for somewhere to live.
2006-07-10 18:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Catrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, let him or is ex pay for the divorce. You already paid for yours.
2006-07-10 18:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way. Tell him to get a second job or whatever. Dont let him make a fool outa you.
2006-07-10 18:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just say sorry I don't loan money to non-family members.
2006-07-10 18:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would only pay half, cause more than that make you look sad, and tell him to contact legal aid.
2006-07-10 18:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not, that might turn into a big mess, you should let him pay, that's his responsibility
2006-07-10 18:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it!
2006-07-10 18:33:36 · answer #11 · answered by Matured One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋