My hubby and I had some issues.His ex chick left a msg saying that she didn't want him to call her only because he is upset with me.(I know she's a lil out there-my hubby and I had been great friends for 5yrs b4 we got married and he told me about their relationship)So I confrnted him and first he denied talking to her.Then when I got the cell phone bill he admitted to talking to her but that was it. I called her and she told me that she saw him three weeks b4 and that they had some drinks at a restaurant then slept with him at some hotel. She couldnt give me the name of the hotel but she told me what he was wearing and knew what pics he had in his wallet. He denies ever seeing her. Would a guy really keep lying, even if they didn't actually cheat?I believe he saw her but I dont believe he slept with her. On her msg that I heard she said she still loves him.I'm sure she would tell me anything to cause probs.I know hes doesnt wanna hurt me.Have u lied b4 even tho the truth is 4giveable?
2006-07-10 10:54:22 · 5 answers · asked by ready4answers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As much as it hurts, there is a possibility that he did sleep with her. You need to seriously take some time to yourself and think about your relationship with this man. Do not turn a blind eye and believe everything he says - especially when he already lied to you once.
2006-07-10 11:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by xxtra chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female - sorry that you are asking for just guys (all of us have gone through similar cheating issues so you may want answers from more than just men). Here'e the thing....I've been married for 20+ years -- I do not WANT to know if my husband cheats or cheated. It won't do any good regardless. All it would cause is hurt and pain. He's probably just trying to stay friendly with this person and there's nothing wrong with that as long as it's hands off and all you can do is trust him. You obviously KNOW that she will tell you anything to get under your skin. You are better off not talking to her because she may give you things to think about and make you worry (when there really isn't anything there) --- if she really is "out there" she may have a lot of spare time on her hands to think things up. If you two have a good relationship, then there HAS to be trust. Don't open your ears to her words at all -- it sounds like SHE is the one trying to hurt you (to get him back) - he's not trying to hurt you obviously.
2006-07-10 18:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW this is a crazy situation. I would tell the truth. But guy tend to keep lying even when caught.
2006-07-10 17:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If the truth is as simple as you've just explained what, on earth, is the point of lying about it?
2006-07-10 18:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by catmanbigwil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he met her or called her behind your back there was only one intention especially for drinks. He screwed her! Accept reality! He's lieing!
2006-07-10 18:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by melvin m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋