Marriage & Divorce - 10 July 2006

which is worth more to you?

2006-07-10 15:49:50 · 13 answers · asked by erk m 3

2006-07-10 15:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by DAVID D 1

third time, have a 12 yr old and 14 y/o from 2nd (abusive) marriage. There's no communication here, feelings, we share bills & responsibilities & nothing else. Recently (6 mo>) I've gotton sober and am not happy in this situation anymore. I have a very close male friend with whom I confide in who's also sober, as well as wonderful girl friends for the first time in a long time. My husband doesn't understand what this sobriety means to me, but doesn't ask about the program or show any interest other than jealousy at the meetings. He was okay with being my enabler though. I am being asked "why I don't have urges to have sex anymore", well, the last time in January, I was drunk. He is pressuring me (for tonight) and giving me a hard time about it. Should I sleep with him just to shut him up? He thinks I am sleeping around anyhow. I don't want to lose the house, but this has got to end. My male friend will stand by me whatever I decide, but I feel so cheap if I do it with no flg

2006-07-10 15:45:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating a married woman for 18 months. She's 40 and has been married 17 years. I'm 29. I am head over heals in love with her. She tells me everyday she loves me too and she wants to be married to me ... but she says it's too hard to leave her husband. Some days when we talk I leave the conversation thinking it's any day now, and others I feel as if there is no chance at all. She says he's not a bad guy and doesn't deserve to be left. It's starting to play on my mind more and more that if she leaves him I am going to be the cause of great heartache for a guy who'll be totally blindsided. Please any advise would be helpful. I know the just walk away advise is what most people think, but at this point it's no easier for me to walk away from her than it is for her to walk away from him. She's a big part of my life now. They have no children. Do I have any chance of happiness with her? I'd really like answers from others who have gone through the same situation.

2006-07-10 15:44:00 · 18 answers · asked by Hope The Best - Expect The Worst 2

2006-07-10 15:37:41 · 14 answers · asked by sweetpea 1

Like jew or Christian? Cuz im non religious and im not against anything.....my best friends a jew so there.

2006-07-10 15:35:26 · 26 answers · asked by Mike 2

I just got sent home from work because another cook decided he wanted to hit on and put his hands on my wife, who is a server in the same resteraunt , i proceded to get in his face call him some names and get sent home. I am also the top bartender in the store and recognized by the owner of the frachise and the corperate president as that, so i am good at what i do and i love my job, but i soooo want to do something about what happened with my wife today. I am very angry and confused ... what should i do!?

2006-07-10 15:25:22 · 12 answers · asked by jeremy h 2

2006-07-10 15:25:13 · 11 answers · asked by venky 1

or do you think he stays and cheat for some other reason.

2006-07-10 15:17:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

choose between a man who cheats you before marriage or a man who do the bad thing after marriage

2006-07-10 15:10:30 · 22 answers · asked by gibor05 1

my partner of 16 years is so self righteous and always seems to put his own needs before me all the time and i'm curious to find out if its a general thing because i plan to be single again in the not to distant future..

2006-07-10 15:01:54 · 56 answers · asked by maidenrocks 3

The girl has set her mind,,,she wants her husband out of her life.

2006-07-10 14:54:57 · 32 answers · asked by angelica b 1

My wife and I feel like we don't have common interests. we have two children 7 and 9. I like my truck and hanging out outside(camping and things.) she says she is willing to try a few of my things. on my part i can honestly say i don't know her interests. we have the common money issues and stress of the kids. any ideas ?

2006-07-10 14:39:23 · 12 answers · asked by Butterbean 1

My husband flirts with women...whether it is a friend of ours or someone we may have just met. He flirts when talking and "body gestures"...hands, arms, that sort of thing. He thinks he is just being "nice" and polite but I feel that it is flirting. I'm not jealous but concerned because I try not to flirt when around other men. It does bother me because he does do it in front of me, which I find to be better than doing it when I'm not around. I just don't understand why he does it? Am I wrong to question this?

2006-07-10 14:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do these things ALLLLLLL the time... don't let one week go by.

1. Ask for sex more than he does
2. Do some wild things... live a little on the edge(his edge,not yours)
3. Always be creative... never let it get old, rotate good ideas if you have to but keep things mixed up
4. Live out some fantasies
5. Tell him how much you love it when he makes you orgasm and teach him how if he is a little lame at it.
6. Bring home porn and give him a BJ while he watches
7. Keep his interest on you by being very sexual all the time. FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT and then follow through often.
8. Remember, most guys can be VERY horny 6 hours or less after sex. If he thinks it's going to be months before he is really satisfied... he's more likely to give in to temptation.
9. Know that you can't push his heart away faster than if you don't fulfill him sexually!!!!!!!
10. Repeat steps 1-9 more often than he could even ask for them!

2006-07-10 14:36:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

relationship.And iam pregnant with my husbands child. The problem that i'm having is he seems to descipline my kids more and don't give them the attention that they need as a stepfather and he lets his child get away wiyh everything. How should i handle the situation?

2006-07-10 14:35:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

when your man does porn do you consider it cheating?

2006-07-10 14:20:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I do if my hubby continues to beg and eventually insist on having one of my gfs join us in the bedroom?

2006-07-10 14:17:31 · 20 answers · asked by sarah 2

my divorced was final in november and im still getting billed for services renderd every month.

2006-07-10 14:11:12 · 4 answers · asked by i know 1

2006-07-10 14:10:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 31 years of absence, Sandra came back and spent the weekend with me. During that weekend, she said many times she loves me deeply and wants to marry me. Should I believe her and buy her an engagement ring again, like I did 31 years ago?

2006-07-10 13:58:32 · 20 answers · asked by DTL37091 1

2006-07-10 13:58:11 · 4 answers · asked by asmikeocsit 7

How do I tell if my husband is cheating on me? He is gone an awful lot and we have been married for a while.

2006-07-10 13:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by sarah 2

2006-07-10 13:50:47 · 37 answers · asked by brenderlou 1

Guys, this one's for you, too. I know some female drug dealers

2006-07-10 13:33:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just a yes or a no please

2006-07-10 13:32:15 · 36 answers · asked by Marge Simpson 6

2006-07-10 13:31:57 · 28 answers · asked by LARCO 4

he was calling her up to 4-5 times on some weeks and one day he talked to her 7 times!Now that I caught him he admitted to her still having a piece of his heart(he liked the way he made her feel when she talked to him)
Before we got married he used to talk highly of her and It made me feel like I could never measure up.(we have been married 3 yrs. now)He still wanted to be "friends" with her but I told him it made me uncomfortable and to not call her and to end all ties with her.Well,he went against my wishes and carefully deleted her calls so I couldnt track him.Yet he SWARES that they were just talking like friends.But I wish I knew what they were REALLY talking like and about to each other.
Now he swares on our sons life that he will never ever talk to her again.And that God made him realize what a fool he was and that he needed to devote himself only to me.Well,now I am left with the distrust and hurt.He wants me to just "drop everything" and not speak of it again.
Any advice?

2006-07-10 13:31:45 · 15 answers · asked by Lenina 2

always look at me like they want me, but never ask me out or anything. Then you see an attractive tall man and he is with a dumpy short fat woman.
I dont get it.

2006-07-10 13:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by DEEDEE Y 1

After the birth of our baby my husband started giving me a lot of problems and then he decided to join the Military. He said he was doing it for us his family but I can not help but feel resentful that he left me all alone with our new born baby. Our baby is going to be 4 years old now and she only has seen him 3 times. But yet he says he loves his family. I think he loves the idea of a family but not the obligation of one. Now he is in Iraq and in a severe combat zone. Now he writes me letters stating all the heartache he is going through and how badly he wants to be a family. But he had been gone so long and I am practically a single mom that I do not want to stay with him but I do not want to worry about him taking my daugher away from me even if all he ends up being is a weekend father. She doesn't even know him at all. But other people are telling me that after all he has been through over there I should stay with him no matter what or how messed up he may be. I'm so confused.

2006-07-10 13:23:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous