Hell no.
2006-07-10 13:36:23
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answered by mickeycushman 2
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Sit her down and give her a pad and a pen. Tell her to make a line down the center. On the left side, she writes The Good Stuff and on the right side she writes The Bad Stuff on the top of each column. Just tell her to write. Don't think. The subconscious will take over. When she stops writing, have her had the pad back to you. Tell her to rest for a few minutes and clear her mind. Now tell her to look at you as you read the The Good Stuff -- all of it. Now read all the bad stuff. Ask her to each one on the bad stuff, can she fix it? If she can't, then cross out what she wrote. Hand her back the pad. She will see what she needs to do. It's like having bills. You know you owe money, but when you write down how much you owe NOW, you are in for a shock. Sometimes our minds justify bad behavior. And we use the only "ifs" and if he changes and if he gets new friends, and we use the 'if onlys' -- it's just a way to try to justify bad behavior to good behavior. It's like trying to put a round peg in a square hole. It just won't work. She has to decide what to do. And with any horrible person's behavior that is toxic, she will loose it all. And now is not the time to loose a job, your home, or your newborn over a fool who doesn't realize what he has. And most of all, tell her that since he is a CRIMINAL and people who associate (married even) with them are at the stake of getting killed. His enemies will turn on HER AND HER CHILD. You don't want to see them shotup when he gets his. And believe me, his people he associates with are not nice guys. They are killers. So if she wants to get out of this mess, she better do it TODAY!!!! Otherwise she will die. What a foolish woman who continues with a criminal who doesn't want to, doesn't even try to change. Tell her to stop hitting her head against a wall. Cause that's what she's doing. And tell her you can't be her friend anymore because she's self destructive and you don't wanna be around when the end comes. Maybe then she will let him go. She better. Her life and her child's life is at stake.
2016-03-27 00:18:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Why would you want to marry a drug dealer ! I'm not saying drug dealers are bad evil people !I'm just sayin why ! Are you married to a drug dealer ~!
2006-07-10 13:38:07
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answered by ChiefNickNameadvancer 3
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HELL NO!!! Not unless you want to spend the rest of your life with all sorts of RIF-RAF coming in & out at all hours of the night. Drug users steal anything & everything to meet their needs. Not to mention that sooner or later the cops will be banging on your door if your drug dealer spouse doesn't blow you "happy" home up in the mean time.
2006-07-10 13:38:37
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answered by uncrn_drm 1
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I would have to say NO. Its probably wrong to judge people based on their profession. But being a drug dealer can lead to a TON of trouble!
2006-07-10 13:48:02
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answered by ChrissyLicious 6
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of course i would just because he was a drug dealer doesnt conceive who he is in total,the guy your interested in could be a drug dealer but that doesnt define whom he is and how he treats you sure it is aproblme one that can see him in jail for along time but that could change and he could change that way of living and wanting in the end its how your relationship is with him,i was with a drud dealer and he stopped dealing and smoking
2006-07-10 13:53:05
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answered by treatau 6
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i guess you find a being raped by a plunger handle appealing? Drug dealers are only good for one thing Drugs...
2006-07-10 13:44:07
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answered by SHINY_Embellishment 2
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Hey I did not to look down on it but he had to do what he had to do for his family. He had a full time job but that only paid the bills and my husband likes having money so that was the next best thing. But he stopped before we had our daughter 3 years ago.
2006-07-10 13:38:01
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answered by lillady 4
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Are you nuts? You stand a real good chance of going down with this idiot and lose everything you have for the rest of your life, and not to say the chance of losing your life too
2006-07-10 13:38:21
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answered by Arthur W 7
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As long we split the profit 50 50.
2006-07-10 13:37:36
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answered by jerryhmusic 3
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if i did i would make sure the drugs were not in the house that way when he get busted you get the cash and he gets 5-10 in the pen
2006-07-10 13:52:48
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answered by Anonymous
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