How do I tell if my husband is cheating on me? He is gone an awful lot and we have been married for a while.
2006-07-10 13:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trust your gut...for sure. You will know in your heart, you are obliviously thinking that is what is going on. Has his appearance changed?? How about your sex life?? Any strange phone calls??? Does he come home late at night??? Have you caught him in lies??? ETC.... the list goes on.... just trust yourself...Good Luck
2006-07-10 14:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by chillilyn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Has he complained that you 1. Don't have enough sex with him 2. Don't meet his needs sexually (has made requests for you to add something) 3. Been more robotic during sex and less sensual.
I know a lot of cheaters and I am one too... If our women would meet our sexual needs we would NEVER NEVER cheat. I begged for 17 years for little things like talking a little dirty daily...
nothing sick or lewd... just something to let me know she was sexual... Now I have 3somes regularly... I have 4 women who WILL do those nasty things(and love them) that prewdish women who just want us to pay thier bills and fix thier sinks won't do. An let me tell you there are a LOT of very hot women who will get wild with a married guy who isn't fulfilled!!! I hate to be harsh, but I can tell you from the experience of a lot of guys... if you really make fulfilling his sexual desires a priority, it's 99.99% guaranteed that he will not cheat!
But if you say no more than 4 times in a year and YOU aren't coming up with great sex fun.... I hope he is cheating, because you are obviously just using him and dont care about THE thing that makes men tick. So... expect every guy to do this to you if this is the case.
If you REALLY want him not to cheat and you aren't a selfish prude... Outdo him sexually... It's that simple!
2006-07-10 21:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mindlessfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1, always trust your gut. Your intuitions are more accurate than most people give them credit for. #2, check phone bills for numbers he's called a lot that are unfamiliar (credit card statements, etc). Also, look out for changes in behavior, defensiveness, lack of sex drive, things like that. Do not make any accusations without hard evidence. Also, if you can, keep the fact that you're suspicious to yourself, he'll put his guard up & be more careful if he knows.
2006-07-10 20:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is the first thing to occupy your mind but it's probably more important to think about your relationship and is it working and are both of you happy with it. If not, work on making it work for the two of you. Spousal cheating isn't the problem, it's the sympton of the problem.
2006-07-10 21:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just figured out he can hang with his buddies.I been married a long time myself ,and my wife never let me hang with my coworkers ,but lateley I have. So what if she gets mad. What is she going to do? Divorce me.
Oh and by the way ladies you all get whats comming to you when you find out he is not cheatting.
You ladies or most always nag about what is wrong let him do his thang. He will appreciate you ore by not following him or nagging. chil out.
2006-07-10 21:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by plumbman_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you suspect it, then you are probably on to somthing.. does he leave the room to have conversations on the phone?? does he say he is workin but his check say otherwise?? has he started gettin more fit?when he goes out, is he more dressed up than usual?all signs
2006-07-10 21:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating if he is constantly out and not spending time with you.
2006-07-10 20:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by TK #11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to cheaters.com and hire them to spy on him and u will know
2006-07-10 21:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by casheye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he might be fishing.
2006-07-10 20:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by TheSkeptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋