choose between a man who cheats you before marriage or a man who do the bad thing after marriage
2006-07-10 15:10:30 · 22 answers · asked by gibor05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he cheats on me before, and I find out, there likely will not be a wedding. If the wedding went on as planned, I'd never trust him again anyhow.
After marriage.."Well, thanks for the house, money and yer &!^ in a jar, Baby."
2006-07-10 15:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by GrlNamedJane 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but If he's not loyal now what makes you or any one else think he will be before marriage or after marriage commitment is a very serious thing in a relationship if you cheat you are not ready for this marriage would any man like it if she did the same probably NOT! think about it
2006-07-10 15:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give just those two choices, then of course cheat before but remain loyal after marriage...
Marriage is the bond of two souls forever, although 60% of people in today's society don't think the forever matters... what happens prior to marriage is prior to this bond. After marriage, everything that's done helps or hinders the marriage, so if you cheat after marriage, it's a big NO NO...
2006-07-10 15:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that cheats on you before his marriage will cheat on you after the marriage
2006-07-10 15:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Allie15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. He should never cheat. If he feels the need to cheat before during or after, then he doesnt love you and is not ready for the commitment of marriage.
2006-07-10 15:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats before marriage, he will also cheat during the marriage. Same thing for the opposite sex!
2006-07-10 15:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to choose then I choose for him to cheat before marriage.
2006-07-10 15:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by ilovedragonflies6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want a man who would have me make that choice. Besides if he can't be loyal before marriage, than I doubt he would remain faithful after.
2006-07-10 15:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by Tamara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To cheat b4 marriage would be better than going through a messy divorce if he was to cheat after marriage...especially if you have kids together.
2006-07-10 15:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man is committed to the relationship, truly loves the woman, cheating would be the last thing on his mind.
2006-07-10 15:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by sunni1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋