do you think when a man cheats on his wife more than once that he may want out?

Question

or do you think he stays and cheat for some other reason.

Answer 1

maybe but there is always a underlying problem

Answer 2

he cheats because men are attracted to physical beauty and are designed that way. He cheats because it's in his nature. But for some reason (and good ones) we have decided to tell men that they should only have one woman. So it's always bound to make a man cheat. Think about it.
Adam and Eve didn't start having sex until after they ate the fruit and was kicked out of Eden. Then one of their sons took a wife. But how did the wife get there? It means that Eve was sleeping with Adam and had a daughter or she slept with her sons or she slept with the serpent.
Then look at Noah, who was told to replenish the earth after the flood. So do you really think he was only sleeping with his wife?
Let's not forget Solomon and Abraham and the others. The point I am making is that women want to control men but when you do, it always backfires.

Answer 3

All men cheats on their wives inclusive mine. However, they are well taken care of their families no doubt they are straying outside of the family.

Reasons why man is unfaithful to wife is perhaps he has found his soul mate with other woman. I always believe that although a couple was married but that doesn't proven that they are meant to be a perfect couple (otherwise divorces will be no existence or there won't even had any mistresses or 2nd/ 3rd etc wives).

My husband is a married man and I knew from the very 1st day we got to know each other. However, my mind was never come across that I would be his 2nd wives until he confides to me saying that even there is 1st wife at home, it just a responsible and there is no love between them. Of course, man do lies so do woman (afterall we all are human being), but somehow, no matter how sweet talkers men are, it is a nature behaviour for men to be unfaithful to wives beforehand.

Answer 4

There are several reasons for a man to cheat, from sexual behavior to a sadness and comprehension.

I believe you should start thinking in the following question.

When a wife is cheated more than once, why does she stay with the husband? Doesn't she have self esteem? Doesn't she love herself? Is she punishing herself for a past mistake? Is that love?

You probably can't change your husband's behavior, but sure you can change yours.

Answer 5

I believe that stuff just happens and loving two people is possible
its like this the one you have at home you love and the one you have outside is the one you just play and have fun with but not to keep for life
the one you have at home is the one you want for life and the one you should be paying attention to more
It hard to say the reason why people cheat there are different reasons but not all do it to get out they just like to have fun and sometime doing these kind of things and getting away with it is fun and sometime we push them away and they do this cheating stuff sometimes its for no reason just fell in the right arms and to hard to choose

Answer 6

My thoughts, I think the man wants out. Or either "wants to have his cake and eat it too." I had an uncle who use to cheat on my Aunt all the time. When she started doing the exact thing, he suddenly had a change in heart. They got their marriage back on track and both gave up the cheating and gave their lives to GOD.

Answer 7

Who knows why people cheat. All too often they cheat with no intentions of leaving their spouse. If the intention to leave was there they would end the marriage an move on.

Rule number one: Never expect him to leave his wife for you. He won't unless she throws him out.

Rule number two: If he cheats on her what is to stop him from cheating on you.

There is no good reason for cheating!!

Answer 8

I think that if he cheats more than once that he is not necessarily looking for a way out. Problem is that this pattern shows that he will almost certainly continue his actions. Is it worth living with this the rest of your life? I SAY NOT!!

Answer 9

A man thinks about sex at least once every 2 mins. So when his wife isn't giving him any he goes and gets it elsewhere. That doesn't mean he doesn't love her, it just simply means that the man wanted some sex and his wife isn't giving it to him.

Answer 10

Anytime a man cheats on his wife it's because he's a coward. She should leave and be glad to be rid of him.

Answer 11

If he cheats on you, then he doesn't deserve you. You are too good for him. If he keeps cheating you on all that will do is degrade you as a human being. Don't accept this form of abuse.