Do you woman want to know how to keep hubby from cheating?

Question

Do these things ALLLLLLL the time... don't let one week go by.

1. Ask for sex more than he does
2. Do some wild things... live a little on the edge(his edge,not yours)
3. Always be creative... never let it get old, rotate good ideas if you have to but keep things mixed up
4. Live out some fantasies
5. Tell him how much you love it when he makes you orgasm and teach him how if he is a little lame at it.
6. Bring home porn and give him a BJ while he watches
7. Keep his interest on you by being very sexual all the time. FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT and then follow through often.
8. Remember, most guys can be VERY horny 6 hours or less after sex. If he thinks it's going to be months before he is really satisfied... he's more likely to give in to temptation.
9. Know that you can't push his heart away faster than if you don't fulfill him sexually!!!!!!!
10. Repeat steps 1-9 more often than he could even ask for them!

You don't need to do it 24 hrs a day... just a little sprinkle of it VERY often... and I BELIEVE that there is more to marraig than sex... but without good sex, it's doomed. So women, I know you don't like it, but get off the lazy stick and give a little. It's about consistency. Also, I see by tha answers that women assume I am omitting all that a man needs to do for a woman. I simply focuse in on this ONE thing. Some men cheat anyway... If my wife told me tomorrow that she will take sex seriously... and not make me starve because she has a low drive... I would stop cheating... I never would have but obviouslyshe didnt care. I know of at least 200 men who cheat and I don;t know one who's wife does more than expose her genetailia on occasion. Just cuz you have the tools doesnt mean you rule our lust... you have to work it... read ANY book on relationships and statistics show that a bad sex life is something a marraige RARELY lives through... find a book to disprove me... I dare ya!

Not a SLAVE... A partner/lover... how can you be lovers when one person does most of it... partners share... It's really a deep, connected loving thing I am talking about... yeah the mechanics are crude, but you HAVE to be committed to the sex... seriously folks, read the statistics... what I said is what every cheater I know asked for and got a flat out 'NO' as a response. If my wife is not into sex... hwo can I be intimatly connected to her... Thats what I long for... but she gets what she asks for... less sex.

My wife has been there for 21 years. She is average and a nice person but she has demoted herself (against my pleadings) to a roommate. Hell, I can put an add in the paper for someone to help with house chores and pal with... tell me a marraige that isn't consumated by sex. If sex isn't so important to you, why do you care if we get it elsewhere!?!

I just love the responses of these women... I bet you women are a real lame bedmate!

Don't be surprised when they cheat then... dont ask, 'why wasnt i enough?'. Pay half of your mortgage and try asking the same question when they take the house from you.

haven't you women heard that men think of sex ALLLLL the time. Like every few minutes???? Then why wold you not pay attention to that. If I drive a car that takes more oil than another, do I NOT ut oil in because the OTHER car doesnt need it??? then why do you insist that he is dissinterested in sex lke you. Thats like asking a woman to try really hard not to have a menstral cycle!!!!

Answer 1

I hear what you're saying. Some of us do think that after we get married he is just supposed to stay and be faithful just because we married him. when realisticly we have to work at everything in the marriage including sex.
If we don't think he will cheat if he is neglected then we are stupid. We will cheat if we are neglected. Its really common sense and these people just don't get it. Of course you have to have all the other stuff you mentioned but we still have to please each other to maintain a good marriage.
What you said goes for the man to he has to do his job also and keep the woman satisfied too.

Answer 2

As a man I'll have to inform you that you are really wrong about it.

Of course sex plays a large part on the cheating thing, but is not all.

Self esteem, attention, even the challenge, or pride also play a rule on the cheating reasons.

Being a sexual slave to your husband will not assure you will have a loyal man, just a pleased one.

You do all that and he will cheat you with a dominatrix...

Answer 3

Love based on GOD last for ever, u can read this book "Boy meets girl"

Which talks about the story of how the auther met and married his wife, Shannon. Where Harris's first book encouraged readers to throw off modern ideas of romantic fixation, Boy Meets Girl goes to the next level and urges single Christian men and women to pursue courtship, and ultimately marriage, thoughtfully and prayerfully. Knowing that many readers will balk at the idea of premeditated courtship, Harris insists that dating should not be emotional recreation but rather a careful decision rooted in obedience to God. While the anecdotes used to reveal true-to-life scenarios about dating pitfalls are somewhat elementary (and geared to those in their 20s), Harris succeeds in hammering home the point that obedience to God's word, selfless love, community, purity, and satisfaction in God are the most important aspect of any relationship. The last section of the book is particularly practical, discussing forgiveness of past sexual sin, questions to ask before tying the knot, and how an understanding of our sinful nature can lead to conflict resolution. For Harris's mere twentysomething years of life experience, his maturity and devotion to God are sincere evidence that he has indeed practiced what he has preached, resulting in a passionate relationship with the love of his life. --Jill Heatherly

Answer 4

I have a life. I don't have time for 24 hour sex. Also I am not going to spend my life devoted to fulfilling the sexual needs of some guy who is not even going to appreciate it. Not to mention that isn't guaranteed to keep him from cheating. The only way to keep a man from cheating is to shoot him.

Answer 5

Well, the key thing for a woman is not marry a man for sex.

No marriage will last for that reason alone.

Answer 6

If a husband won't request things he wants sexually from his wife and cheats on her instead, he is not worth being married to. Marriage is not all about sex.

Answer 7

Typical.

Answer 8

Very sexual all the time? Marriage is more than sex honey

Answer 9

Way to give it to these women straight and un-cut. If women would listen to this sound advice, then you could take the divorce out of this column.

Great Job!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

I do these things naturally...it isn't about what you do for your man. Many men just need variety no matter how much you can give him. It was a nice attempt at good advice though. :)