I have a good friend who has been in a relationship with her boo for sometime...
When they first got together He would tell her he loved her all the time, they would kiss in public, hold hands, suggle on the couch.
They were acording to her having sex three or four times a day..
She is now confused and alone..
She tells me that they no longer do any of the above...
That he comes home from work and sitts on the couch, eats dinner and goes to bed, there is nothing between them..
She tells me she is not getting any help around the house, and only gets attention when he needs something.
She feels she is being used, and that he only cares that the house is clean and his needs are taken care of.
When i asked if she has talked to him she said yes and he told her that he loves her very much, that she is the love of his life, and would die if he was to loss her, and that he doesnt have any disire to have sex , and that even going to the strippers is not apealing
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO
2006-07-10 16:35:43 · 9 answers · asked by passonfruits 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is pretty sure he is not cheating, couse he is comes home in the work truck. and he doesnt show til in the morning ...
she is also good friends with one of the guys he works with, and he would say something to her. Her boo is unaware of there friendship now but knows that they attend school together,
2006-07-10 16:44:46 · update #1
Shower til in the morning comes home in work related matterial
2006-07-10 16:47:15 · update #2
Call Dr. Phil he has all the answers Chico.
2006-07-10 16:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he and they need counseling. He may be depressed or he may be having an affair. You normally just don't stop wanting sex without a reason. He also sounds selfish in that he wants a maid and cook and to have his own private time. I hate to admit it, but it doesn't sound good. Be a friend and let her know she has choices. She doesn't have to stay in a marriage where she is being used or lied to. I wish her all the best.
2006-07-10 23:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is in a dilemma. She should have started our right and gone through a period of dating and all before moving in with him. Too late to change the past so you have to fix the present. If she wants to try to salvage the relationship she needs to find out what is really going on with him. Maybe it's stress from the job, maybe it's another woman, maybe it's a man. Who knows, but she needs to find out what is going on.
Counseling may be a good start. Good Luck
2006-07-10 23:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probley fooling around, or it depends on his age, there is times when a guy goes threw a spell where it just does nothing for him to have sex, he just dosent want it, maybe once in a while, it usually lasts for anout 3 or 4 months, usually around 39 ,it happened to me, just lucky i had an understanding wife, it was the dr, that told us what it probley was, after 3 and a half months, i kicked back into gear, now im like a rabbit, my wife calls me thumper. lol
2006-07-11 10:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get that man to a Dr! It could be a physical problem or depression. After a clean bill of health she should consider getting couples counseling.
2006-07-10 23:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by blue butter fly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him checked by a doctor. Sounds like he is major depressed to me.
2006-07-10 23:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by schafer_mail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he is seeing someone else and she should find out whats really going on and leave him alone and move on he dont sound depressed he seems not intersted in her anymore
2006-07-10 23:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to the doctor. He sounds depressed....or he's sleeping with someone else.
2006-07-10 23:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are married to me
2006-07-10 23:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋