2006-07-10 05:41:06 · 29 answers · asked by Scott V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her if she has ever considered it, why you might like it, and offer to be part of the process. Make sure that she knows that you love her and her body. Tell her how shaving will turn you on, make you a better lover. How much you shave is an issue. If you shave close, it may itch her when it grows back. Would you consider it having done with you as well?
2006-07-10 05:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're not being intimate, ask her, "Honey, have you ever thought about shaving your pubic hair?" If she says, no, then say you want to try something different and ask her if she'll do it. She may have tried it once before but didn't like it. The hair growing back really itches. Maybe suggest waxing if she says she tried shaving already.
2006-07-10 05:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by treasures320 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband went through this process before, i felt kinda weird him asking me too. we wanted to give me oral. but anyway if u do go down on u'r wife, ask her, and tell her its because u feel u can please her better if u didn't have the pubic hair in u'r way. put it to her nicely, and really just bring it up b/c it would feel too nice. on her part if she thinks u are disqusted by her pubs. but to top it all of, when she does it give her the best loving, starting it off with some 100% level A oral sex. and i bet she want have a problem shaving it for u. in fact she'll do it without u asking her again.
2006-07-10 05:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to shave it for her. It's a fun treat. Some females just don't want to let go of their pubic hair. Keep asking her and she might try it for you.
2006-07-10 05:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE very SENSITIVE about it!!! Just sit her down privately and say, "Honey, I want you to know that I will always be honest with you about my sexual needs. And I would like to let you know that I am curious to see how our sex life might be improved if you would trim up." Then out of all fairness you should shave yours and rellize how much it is a pain in the *** and how much it itches when it is growing back!!!! Then she will either do it or not but at least you were man enough to ask.
2006-07-10 05:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by dumbunny33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have shaved yours, wait a week and see how it feels.
Then and only then do you even breach the subject by ASKING not TELLING your wife.
I also suggest therapy to see why you find the human body in it's natural state a dirty thing. Also explore why shaving 'down there' appeals to you. Most analysts believe it's a pedophilic fantasy.
2006-07-10 06:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by logical_centrist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are interested in a little change in the bedroom. Chances are she'll fire back at you "why dont you shave yours?" It's give and take right? So shave yours first and ask her to do the same after.
2006-07-10 05:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take a bath together and then shave each others...once she experiences some oral on that freshly shaved (and very sensitive) area she will always want to keep the hair away..hehe
2006-07-10 05:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave it as in ALL of it off? or just the bikini area?
If it is just the bikini area, just ask her. I doubt she would be offended. My husband let's me know when it is time to 'trim it up' and it doesn't bother me a bit.
2006-07-10 05:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say......"Honey, I love making love to you! But you know what would really make it better......if you shaved your pubic hair. You know I would do anything for you, so would you do this one small thing for me? I Love you babe!". Try that!
2006-07-10 05:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by Cathy L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋