After exploring all the social, spiritual, mental things you have in common and you discover you don't have any of the same likes, tastes, interests, beliefs, etc. is it worth it to stay with each other because you find each other incredibly attractive and sexy?
2006-07-10 03:40:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, not really. You have to be friends to sustain a life together. Sex is great, but you can get great sex anywhere. If you are both happy at the moment, continue. You both may come to discover more in each other.
2006-07-10 03:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea thats called an F.W.B.
But what really is the issue?? You don't have to have things in common so much that you're the same person though. If you have different views on the future and are unwilling to compromise (i.e. children, religion, values, marriage, etc.) than that might be an issue. It also depends on what you are looking for? Casual dating? Or you're shopping for a wife? If you're wife-shopping and you have doubts about her now than bail and not waste both your time.
I am seeing someone I don't have much in common with, our lives are seperate but when we come together we [click] and we find eachother attractive and sex is amazing. And I'm just going to keep enjoying it until theres some big impassable problem that comes along (if one ever does). Thing is, attraction and great sex is a good basis for a relationship, you just have to find out (with time) if it'll work. Sure you might not have the same childhood or family ideals, but if you can compromise and make it work, than it will. I'd say don't rush out if there isn't any fighting over these differences and things are going well. (If you aren't fighting over these differences now, you may just compromise and work together VERY WELL in the future). Good luck
2006-07-10 10:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have nothing else in common more than likely the great sex will not be enough to keep you two together long term. You can always enjoy it for now but realize that it will end sooner or later.
2006-07-10 10:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing to be said about this.
Time will NOT heal all.
If you have nothing in common what happens when that sexual attraction fades? And as sure as night follows day it will. Sex is enough if you only come together now and then. But it is quicksand to build a relationship on.
2006-07-10 10:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with the person forever, you better have more than just physical attractiveness. Otherwise, you will most likely be arguing or fighting a lot during the times that you two are NOT in the rack.
2006-07-10 10:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Luckyprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good sex is a product of a loving relationship not what ultimately holds it together. If all you have with each other is sex, then my guess is that you will get bored with each other soon enough.
2006-07-10 10:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time, you will have nothing. A solid relationship is based on a couple having similar goals, etc. In the short run, sex may be "the" goal. But it won't last.
2006-07-10 10:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to a relationship than sex. If that is all you want from each other than good if not I would quit having it and move on.
2006-07-10 10:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a sex buddy before and it was great, but eventually she moved on and I moved on. That's how these things go, but I'm gratefull for the memories. Let it just run its course.
2006-07-10 10:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by fidowithaspot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do it for a while if that makes you both happy. Eventually, you'll probably want to move on with your lives and find someone that is compatible in most areas that are important to you.
2006-07-10 10:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋