is there any thinge wrong to love any one after marriageor to keep girl friend?

Answer 1

It depends if you want marriage to work or not.

If you don't then why bother. You will just give and sustain permanent emotional injuries and scars. Instead have the multiple partner thing, etc. If you are a young man, I want to clue you in. This type of lifestyle will lead to impotence that will start appearing in your later 30s and 40s. I know it sounds strange, but think about it-Hugh Heffner doesn't have 20 girlfriends for nothing-what a show.

If you want the marriage to work then you must put value into your marriage and partner. You put so much effort in that your spouse becomes the number one most valuable thing you have. Affairs devalue your partner which devalues the marriage which in turn devalues yourself. This is why this lifestyle leads to impotence. When you no longer value yourself, it will be impossible to get an erection without help whether surgically or pharmaceuticals.

I don't know why this is - but the evidence is all around you. Put the pieces together people-there are ramifications of ones actions whether you know it or not.

Answer 2

You, like so many filled with egg of contrary spirits, confuse Lust for Agape -love. You were sexually active before marriage, your father was also. Your father probably cheated on his wife--you are confirming the words of exodus 34: 6/7. The iniquity of the father falling on the children up to 4 generations. The seeds of adultery that your father planted are probably in you. The seeds of the personalities that were implanted in you from each casual encounter, like little worms, are already embedded in you. Here is a litmus test you should take immediately: Do you sometimes have a dream where someone stronger than you is pinning you down on the bed, making it impossible for you to move either to the right or the left? If you have that--that is a third strike--evidence of serious problems. Check this website:www.trafford.com/04-2126. For more advanced symptoms, check www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ tg/detail/-/0937958417.
Boaz.

Answer 3

I don't think it's wrong to love anyone. You can't help how you feel. But to have a girlfriend while married thats not cool. Talk to your wife and ask her how she feels the relationship is doing. Maybe she might be feeling the same way.

Answer 4

Yes, it is. You married that person, to be with only them, love only them. You are breaking your vows, and leaving behind any reason for being married in the first place, if you cannot remain loyal and give all your attention to her and her only.
If you feel that you love someone else, or feel the need for a girlfriend on the side.....then you shouldn't be married in the first place, and should be lookin' to file divorce papers, rather than look for a girlfriend.

Answer 5

Yes it is wrong. You must be wholly committed to that one person. That's what marriage is about. And going into marriage you have to look at it as if it was forever. If you think otherwise, then it will end in a divorce, and you don't want to go through that hell. Make sure you know what you're getting into.

Answer 6

Of course, I am surprised you would not know the difference, which means your significant other does not know about such a circumstance, what can be considered an affair...marriage is a commitment to one other person to love and cherish, not partially love and cherish others too....one would lack devotion to feel any different.

Answer 7

"keep a girlfriend"? So adultery right? I despise that! You and my ex-husband should get together and jump off a cliff! Alright, that was harsh, but seriously.. I've no good things to say.

Answer 8

I say it's ok to have friends. But don't rush anything or go trying to hope into a realtionship b/c sometimes the feelings are stilll there. Freeze.

Answer 9

IT IS ABOMINABLE TO CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE. YOU CAN HAVE FRIENDS AFTER MARRIAGE, BUT IT WOULD BE WISE TO KEEP THEM IN THAT LEVEL....DONT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE. IF YOU DONT LOVE YOUR WIFE, IT IS WISE TO LET HER GO, ATLEAST SHE WILL BE FREE AND WOULD HAVE A CHOICE, AND HOPEFULLY NEXT TIME WOULDNT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE OF MARRYING THE WRONG GUY AS SHE MADE THIS TIME BY MARRYING YOU.

Answer 10

Have a extreme talk with the girl. tell her which you recognize that she might opt to be your frnd in user-friendly terms yet as quickly as you have all thesee thoughts, this is going to become puzzling for you to act too formal. tell her which you're actually not attempting to hurry her right into a determination yet merely which you're feeling as while you're performing for all time and has too lots to regulate once you opt to talk to her on yet another point. tell her that she shouldn't take it to her heart and perchance you ppl ought to shelter a distance for sometime till you commence feeling time-honored round her or she feels waiting adequate to have the skill to settle for you in yet another functionality. this might assist you to not experience as in case you reside 2 lives. tell her which you wish she is conscious. shelter very formal dating for sometime limited to a 'hi' or 'hi'. If she has thoughts for you, this is going to coach on her face or she will attempt to be with you back.