Marriage & Divorce - 7 July 2006

i was dating a guy whom i loved and did all a could for him but we broke up just because he prefered his friend not me. i loved him even more after our fight i have never forget him. then i found another guy and get married one year ago. i love my husband and he loves me but i'm not sure if i love him as much as i loved my x. i love them both but i knew that i had to choose and i decided not to dream anymore ant to act before i loose everything. but sometime i worry, will i regret the choice i made, will i ever love my husband the way i would like to without the other one in between?
is there some one who can give me some moral support?

2006-07-07 13:46:24 · 14 answers · asked by singer 1

he will get mad at me and call me really evil things. then about 2 hours later he will call me and tell me he is sorry. i am just not sure what i can do about this. i am so lost. he was the one that wanted the divorce and now he wants to work it out. what should i do?

2006-07-07 13:34:05 · 44 answers · asked by techgurl2009 1

2006-07-07 13:24:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married and love my wife very much. however, i am in love with another lady also. how/why is this possible?

2006-07-07 13:21:24 · 15 answers · asked by suavechulo007 2

2006-07-07 13:20:16 · 11 answers · asked by aemzmrz 1

the child is now begaining to speak some basic english well his father died a year ago and he had never spent time with him much while he was with him she broke with him 4yrs ago saw him on visitation.
he is a only child. well I am trying to spend some personal time with him as much I can. all of got a id to go swimmng where this a city
in Drumondville but he wants me to go swimming with him every day I went with him twice where I was hoping he cud play tennis with me. just to balance it one day swimming one day tennis. well he works being 11 vending Donuts well the mother saids he walked half the morning
so he is tired. I stay with him when he comes back so she told me
that do what he wants you to do I want to be right not doing the same thing everyday with him but she the common law wife don't think that way cause he does not understand english enough
so what is the best to do I don't want to be controled by a 11 year old to do what he wants you to do? will some one help me here?

2006-07-07 13:15:28 · 3 answers · asked by edward_church2000 2

Does stress have anything to do with whether or not you want to have sex with a person that you are married to?

2006-07-07 13:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by *♥*fabulous fab*♥* 3

If you accidently found out your husband was having an affair with another woman and he says he's in love with her, do you plead for him to stay and try to work at the marriage or would you put him out?
Do you think its only woman who are desperate enough to keep a man in their life, for whatever reasons, that would take him back?

your opinions please...thanks

2006-07-07 13:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So something happened, like you accidentaly hit a corner of a atm machine with your car and it left a big yellow mark, when should i say something

2006-07-07 12:59:39 · 8 answers · asked by T agent 3

Do you think fugly people are more likely to stay with an abusive/cheating spouse? Does their fugliness cause them to cling on to any man/woman who they can find?

2006-07-07 12:58:37 · 8 answers · asked by lilos 1

2006-07-07 12:56:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't know what else to do after 5 years of marriage and it has been rocky since year ago

2006-07-07 12:48:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Strongly suspect he is being unfaithful and he has changed his Yahoo e-mail password. In the past we've always had one another's passwords but suddenly he doesn't want me to have his. Is it possible for me to get it without his knowledge?

2006-07-07 12:43:49 · 47 answers · asked by Cashmere621 2

2006-07-07 12:43:39 · 13 answers · asked by TCBgirl 3

okay my parents are divorced and im usually with my mom and she has a bf but why doesnt my dad tell me nething about his life and gf it makes me feel so unhappy and sad sometimes

2006-07-07 12:42:42 · 7 answers · asked by wootwootimndahouse 1

okay my parents are divorced and im usually with my mom and she has a bf but why doesnt my dad tell me nething about his life why it makes me feel so unhappy and sad sometimes

2006-07-07 12:41:35 · 19 answers · asked by wootwootimndahouse 1

Whoever created this saying is brilliant. I read a lot of the responses and that is the line they will use as an excuse to let their signifigant other get away with cheating. A man must have created it. Am I the only one thinks "fool me once, and I won't be around to see if you try a second time." Why do people buy into these ridiculous sayings and live their lives according to them?

2006-07-07 12:35:40 · 14 answers · asked by lilos 1

Unfortunately I married one of those men that are still about the mentality of 20. He thinks if he works his 40 hrs./wk. the rest of the time is his. He smokes, drinks, likes to hang with others that are the same. The first year he was pretty good, sweet, so that is why I did marry him, I saw the good in there - that was 9 yrs. ago. It hasn't come back. A couple of years ago I started trying to talk to him, asked him to leave, at least for a while to see what we would miss about eachother. I felt that I didn't love him anymore. During this we were blessed with two healthy beautiful children. We live in a house that has been in MY family and is now mine and was some time before I met him. He has a temper. I even have a domestic violence advocate. He refused to leave and obviously I cannot leave since this is MY house. Finally he agreed to leave, but only if he took the children. I agreed, to get him out and not cause a scene. His family has $ and I now can't get them back.

2006-07-07 12:33:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where did you meet your current husband/wife/boyfriend/or girlfriend?

2006-07-07 12:30:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 12:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 12:21:55 · 2 answers · asked by patricia h 2

I'm in perfect shape and I expect my wife to be likewise. I don't like fatties and I prefer the lean, athletic look over the over-stuffed coach potato. I'm a nice guy and I have asked nicely but it hasn't worked. I think I need to resort to more drastic measures.

2006-07-07 12:15:48 · 62 answers · asked by Billy 2

How many really take their vows to heart anymore? these promises have traditionally included the notions of affection ("love, comfort, keep"), faithfulness ("forsaking all others"), unconditionality ("for richer or for poorer", "in sickness and in health"), and permanence ("as long as we both shall live", "until death do us part"). It seems nowdays all you hear is cheating or abusing. How many keep their vows and how long have you been married?

2006-07-07 12:05:15 · 7 answers · asked by Texas_at_its_best 4

2006-07-07 12:02:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend tells me he wants to get married and have kids everytime he has a few drinks and tells me how much he loves me and that he knows he doesnt tell me enough but he cant express his feelings like he should whats the deal

2006-07-07 11:56:01 · 12 answers · asked by stacey s 2

My wife has been out of town all week and her best friend came over last night after being at a bar, and I told her she could hang out until she sobered up. She told me that she thought my wife was coming home yesterday but I told her she had the day wrong.

I come to find out she KNEW my wife was still gone.

We were hanging out, talking, and she talked me into having a few more drinks with her. So next thing you know we're drunk and her friend is hanging all over me!

After an akward rest of the night with that kind of behavior, she wanted to go to bed with me and I said no. She got a little pissed off but seemed like she would drop it.

This morning when I woke up she was gone, BUT, she ripped up a bunch of my wife's clothes, took out her wedding dress and dumped ketchup and wine on it before shredding the bottom of it. She wrote on the walls in lipstick that I was a horrible lay with a small penis and she stole some money and DVDs.

My wife knows she was there but not the details.

2006-07-07 11:43:34 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 11:33:36 · 7 answers · asked by bbcranks 4

My man is nit-picking me to death, he never used to be that bad until we moved into our new home, and every single day he
has a new rule or tells me something that i need to do... he is driving me up the wall i am so frustrated. Ladies/ Gentlemen how do you deal with this?

2006-07-07 11:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by T agent 3

He requested certain property and debts that went along with them then filed bankruptcy. Now that it is discharged, they are coming after me. What can I do?

2006-07-07 11:27:50 · 8 answers · asked by Divorcee 1

I read a lot of the answers about pre-nups, and 2 common themes came up:

1) sign it...unless you really are after his money &
2) "It would be sad if you were with him for a long period of time, got divorced and left with nothing for the time and commitment you put into your marriage." Um, no, I don't think so.

I just don't get where women get this idea that they deserve half the money I make while we're married. That's absurd. I make money it's mine, she makes money it's hers. If she wants to buy a boat with her money, let her have it, she earned it. If i buy a house with my money, it's mine, let me have it. If I save a lot of money, while she goes out and blows hers on clothes, then I certainly don't want half her clothes, but she'll gets half the money I saved while together. Our laws are retarded. What happened to equal rights? Girls only want equality when it suits them.

2006-07-07 11:22:18 · 4 answers · asked by thedawn 2