the child is now begaining to speak some basic english well his father died a year ago and he had never spent time with him much while he was with him she broke with him 4yrs ago saw him on visitation.
he is a only child. well I am trying to spend some personal time with him as much I can. all of got a id to go swimmng where this a city
in Drumondville but he wants me to go swimming with him every day I went with him twice where I was hoping he cud play tennis with me. just to balance it one day swimming one day tennis. well he works being 11 vending Donuts well the mother saids he walked half the morning
so he is tired. I stay with him when he comes back so she told me
that do what he wants you to do I want to be right not doing the same thing everyday with him but she the common law wife don't think that way cause he does not understand english enough
so what is the best to do I don't want to be controled by a 11 year old to do what he wants you to do? will some one help me here?
2006-07-07 13:15:28 · 3 answers · asked by edward_church2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi, It's good that the 2 of you get that one on one time. You need that to have a healthy relationship with him as well as the household. Because whether you like it or not you are a father figure to him; seeing that you are the adult male in your home. I agree with Heidie, I also think the 3 of you should do things together as a family. I don't feel that you should solely keep him entertained. You need your private & alone time. I wish you Good Luck.
2006-07-08 12:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by â?¥ Σ§hâ?¬llâ?¬y2Uâ?¥ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all three of you should do things together, and you're right for introducing different thing for him to do. Good luck.
2006-07-07 20:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS WONDERFUL ENOUGH THAT YOU GIVE OF YOUR TIME TO THIS BOY. YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE TO BEND OVER BACKWARDS TO PLEASE HIM WITH EXACTLY THE ACTIVITIES HE WANTS TO DO. IT'S A SHARING OF TIME YOU ARE HAVING WITH THE BOY WHICH MEANS HE IS SUPPOSED TO SHARE WITH YOU ALSO WHICH MEANS YOU DECIDE THE ACTIVITY. THE BOY GETS TO GO OUT ON AN ACTIVITY AND YOU GET TO PICK THE ACTIVITY.
2006-07-07 21:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by PAULA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋