i am married and love my wife very much. however, i am in love with another lady also. how/why is this possible?
2006-07-07 13:21:24 · 15 answers · asked by suavechulo007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no i am not conflicted about my feelings with being in love with two women, nor do i have a problem with committment or being responsible, i am upstanding in both. it is just that i honestly can feel deep love (and lust) for both ladies at the same time.
2006-07-07 13:34:48 · update #1
Because it's two different types of love... and the other could be lust and not love.
2006-07-07 13:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is possible you love your wife she's your partner and you would do any and everything for her but at the same time you love some else this person you love and lust for you wouldn't go out your way for her but you will try to make her as happy as can be and you like the sex and she is an all around good person right and she does things and listens to you and she's new while your wife is old being you and her have been together for awhile so the new lady is like fireworks to you but sooner or later the new lady will become old too and them what you meet someone else to fall for stop well your ahead talk with your wife go on dates with her travel do things that you normally wouldn't do with your wife to spice things up good luck
2006-07-07 20:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that even when we are dating someone or when we're in love with someone, as humans, we are still somehow attracted to other people....it's just the way it is. The question is, how strong are your feelings for this other person? Don't do something stupid like cheat on your wife, just don't. If you can just stay friends with this other lady, then that's fine, but don't take the relationship status beyond friends!
2006-07-07 20:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by beauvoir_babe1865 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can love a bunch of people, but it's very hard to be in love with someone. You can love your wife, but are you still in love with her. You said you are in love with the other woman. Make sure your feelings are strong. But to answer your question, nothing is impossible, just think and trust your gut.
2006-07-07 20:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by TravDawgyDawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't it be? Human's have a great capacity to love...and hate. Love is not a rigidly defined thing. We can have strong feelings of love for different reasons. Maybe one makes you laugh, and another makes you feel like you're special. The answer is absolutely.
2006-07-07 20:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that may be a possibility. Since you are married, I woulndn't try anything with another lady, You sound conflicted and that's not good.
2006-07-07 20:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by prettyfreek15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,
you can love many poeople in your lifetime, what makes a difference is that you show your love,(to your wife to whom you have vowed to love) This new love, is fun love, different love. Try to change your life with your wife, if you say you love her so. and if she loves you back. This new love, does it make you feel like you did when you first met your wife? maybe this new love makes you feel different. Think about what makes these 2 women make you feel.
2006-07-07 20:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by loll1p0p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can be in love with more than one girl, in my experience im in love with my girlfriend but at the same time im in love with another girl.
2006-07-07 20:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by marvin o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not love. lust. you can lust after several women at the same time
2006-07-07 20:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh shoot...please don't hurt anybody. Yeah, I think it is possible. I found myself in that crazy position before. SO glad to be out.
2006-07-07 20:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋