My man is nit-picking me to death, he never used to be that bad until we moved into our new home, and every single day he
has a new rule or tells me something that i need to do... he is driving me up the wall i am so frustrated. Ladies/ Gentlemen how do you deal with this?
2006-07-07 11:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by T agent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i always roll my eyes outside of his sight and say ok, i will ...I just hope he dosn't remember every little thing he tells me ..
cause I sure don't...ha ha
2006-07-07 12:05:27 · update #1
I love my man and I control him just as much as he does me, and the sex is just fine here....
2006-07-19 13:07:19 · update #2
Annoying, isn't it? Tell him to clean the damn sink himself.
2006-07-07 11:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to be controlling turn the table around and ask him "What is this on your boxers" if that doesn't apply make up a small argument that is compatible with your situation, dont blow up the argument because it's not real. Just be a little disgusted and relax for a couple of weeks. He'll be on his best behavior because he will think he he is in the dog house and it will give back a little control of your own life. Make a list for him too. Be sure to practice restraint though, you just want him to get off of your case. So we as wives can do what we like to do relax we have enough pressure with cooking, cleaning, sex, and kids. We love them and we need love not a drill sargeant.
2006-07-07 20:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Craig A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my OPINION....nit picking is a sign of being a control freak. However, watch out though...as it can also be a way of comparing you to someone else...another woman. Hopefully this is not the case; however, when my X-husband started really nit picking it was because He was seeing someone else, and wanted the focus off of him. He wanted me to feel "bad" because he was doing something wrong. That is a form of manipulation, and mind control.
2006-07-07 19:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, deal with it all the time. Control issues. I do what I feel like and when there's something he wants done, now he does it. I have enough to deal with every day so he has to help too. Show him how to vacuum, make it fun.....
2006-07-07 19:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex used to do that, I ignored him and did whatever the hell I wanted. One time he said, "how come you never listen to me?" I told him, "I listen, I just don't do it!!" He's being a control freak, stop it now or it will only get worse.
2006-07-07 18:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by chessapeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the sex darling./ he has found the sex is no longer fun and I wonder why he would think that/
2006-07-16 12:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know the answer, I'm trying to figure that one out myself.
2006-07-19 09:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Now why haven't you cleaned the sink yet?
2006-07-07 18:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dishes don't wash them selfs! he can clean too! get a back bone and tell him to help! your not his *****! your his woman!
2006-07-15 14:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by 2good4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! THIS IS HAPPENING TO ME TOO.
JUST BOUGHT OUR FIRST HOME ALSO.
HOW DO DEAL WITH HIM??? ASKING MYSELF THE SAME QUESTION?
2006-07-07 19:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋