Marriage & Divorce - 7 July 2006

My brother is getting married in Hawaii and my husband, mother, aunt, and i are all going to support him. People werent formally invited because it was an expensive trip, and we are paying our own way. My mom and dad had a nasty divorce and dont get along, so i often feel akward talking about them to each other. My dad called today and asked what our plans were for the next few months, so being honest i told him that one of our plans was attending the wedding. When he asked who all was going, i told him that, and he seemed to shy away from the conversation. Should i have been honest and forthright? if he decides that we are all going and he's going too, will it ruin the wedding and ultimately be my fault? Should i feel bad that he wants to go but doesnt because he knows my mom is there, although he would be missing out on his sons wedding?

2006-07-07 11:15:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 11:15:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 11:13:53 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do girls sleep with married men? Better question why do girls date married men and then try to convince themselved and everyone else that he loves them not his wife....Then they complain when he doesnt leave his wife.. Come ON...He doesnt love you if you a secret..when you love someone you show it to the world. beside what makes them think that even if he did leave his wife and married her that he would do it to her also.. You really think that if you were his affair that someone else isnt going to be the other women when your together?

2006-07-07 11:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by Trouble 3

2006-07-07 11:11:39 · 9 answers · asked by bishopljharris 1

2006-07-07 11:06:42 · 9 answers · asked by I love winter 7

I know, they all say "He didn't love her, he loves me and wants to work it out". Majority of the time, the men work it out becuase they don't want to pay child support, alimony, split the belongings, etc. If a man has a long term affair with someone else, that means his heart was with that person, not his wifes, for the year or years that affair went on. Knowing this, the wives hold onto their husbands with the kids, child support, etc. Why would someone want a man they have to blackmail into staying with?

2006-07-07 11:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by lilos 1

My husband has cheated twice both times while I was pregnant. The first time I got over it, devestated by the second. While I am not staying, I was just wondering how many people actually stay with repeat cheaters?

2006-07-07 11:01:38 · 11 answers · asked by dannyl410 2

I think I married him so I wouldn't be alone
so my 2 children would have a father

and now I have 4 kids (had another but was asked to terminate the pregnancy cause the baby had major defects and the hubby and other family members thought it would be more of a struggle than do good for anyone in the house, and thought I was being selfish cause I wanted to go full term and see what would happen- there were options, but in the end I terminated cause of all the pressure)

now I am so friggin miserable - there is no passion all we do is sit around the house, there really isn't any connecting with the kids they play around us but we don't play with them cause well, the computer or television is more important

he is into his hobby more than he is in making sure the bills are paid

he doesn't beat me or cheat on me or drink himself drunk

I just dont know what my problem is --- HELP

thanks for allowing me to vent

2006-07-07 10:51:12 · 16 answers · asked by zaniboni2 1

I have been married for 10 years. My husband whom i love very much has had a ongoing problem with depression and alcohol. Over the years it is only getting worse. He refuses to get help and I have pleaded, begged, cryied, and yeld at him to get help. We have two daughters 4 years and 3 years. I am fear they will start recongizing his drinking and depression and am afraid of the effect it will have on them. Is it time for me to take our daughters and seperate, until he accepts help and helps himself?

2006-07-07 10:49:15 · 8 answers · asked by KLynn 2

I have been married for 24 years. During the time my husband has always been in debt. He owes thousands of pounds. I have always been good with money. At the moment I pay the gas, electricity, telephone, tv licence, water rates. We are now in the situation where we could lose our home. I owe no money personally. I don't even have a credit card.My sons are age 17 and 18. Is now the right time to make a fresh start on my own, and where do I begin.

2006-07-07 10:43:54 · 27 answers · asked by CityGirl 2

This really bothers me and she says she will not give up her friendship.

2006-07-07 10:42:06 · 21 answers · asked by rudyard88 1

I spoke with the FBI office in the United States,they in reture gave me the phone number to the NVC office,I called the NVC office on July 7,2006 and was told they have not received any fingerprints from the US Consulate in Vietnam. (HELP)

I was told by the US CONSULATE her fingerpints were sent out May 16th,2006

It seems that there is a problem somewhere with my case.I would request for someone to look at my case please and correct any problems with it at the US Consulate office.


Who can I call to help with this issue ?

2006-07-07 10:28:27 · 4 answers · asked by vonleyser 1

So I just asked a question about my husband talking to his ex when we were going through tough times.. I confronted him and of course he couldn't lie cause I had proof! He says he didn't see anything wrong with it because they just spoke. But the last time she called she left a msg saying that she still loves him, but only mentioned him calling her not seeing her. But I still have this feeling he saw her, but he won't admit it. I have no proof. How do I let it go? Or do I? Should I just stop digging at it? He is my husband and I should have faith in him!

2006-07-07 10:27:29 · 20 answers · asked by ready4answers 1

2006-07-07 10:26:01 · 12 answers · asked by Dodger Fan 1

my fiance of two years was once gay. i met him 6 years ago when he was. he cam out to me freshman year. i was cool with it. he was in a few sexuall realationships with men. then he had a bad gay partner that grossed him out. then he wasnt gay anymore. we then got together. we have had a great time. we have a lot of sex. he still looks gay but not to me. he acts half way gay also. then 1 month ago i saw gay porn on the comp!!!!!!!! he swears he was just looking to verify that he was straight!!! am i in denial??

2006-07-07 10:25:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

[Asking from within the ubiquitous context of spousal domestic relations!]

2006-07-07 10:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by Moi 1

2006-07-07 10:14:52 · 10 answers · asked by 5nHubby 2

2006-07-07 10:11:58 · 19 answers · asked by Married Male 2

It just amazes me how many people I see on answers goins " He says he loves me but he won't leave his wife or family, what gives?" I just want to know how people don't come to the conclusion that a broken vow once means a broken vow again.

2006-07-07 10:11:19 · 6 answers · asked by on my way 4

2006-07-07 10:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by nishantparikh18 1

I've been married 4 a few months now and I found out that my husband started talking to his ex.. They spoke about 5xs in one week (per the cell phone bill) It was when we were really going thru tough times! I have no proof but I think he went to see her. I really don't believe he slept with her. Even if he didn't, do you still consider that cheating?????

2006-07-07 10:10:22 · 12 answers · asked by ready4answers 1

wife wants to have a landing strip done downstairs, she also wants to act like a s*l*u*t for me. any ideas on either topic?

2006-07-07 10:06:06 · 5 answers · asked by needingitnow342000 2

2006-07-07 10:05:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

wife wants to have a landing strip done downstairs, she also wants to act like a slut for me. any ideas on either topic?

2006-07-07 10:05:13 · 4 answers · asked by needingitnow342000 2

and no i have no personal experience in this matter, just wondering if ya'll think that enforcing criminal penalties for adulterous behavior would be good or bad for society as a whole.

2006-07-07 10:01:25 · 11 answers · asked by jude D 2

He didnt cheat, but made me feel like I wasnt good enough.

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2006-07-07 09:54:59 · 4 answers · asked by don s 1

2006-07-07 09:54:52 · 7 answers · asked by kambriabella 1

we both work I have a sitter at home with our 3 children he gets home earler than me so I can tell him what's going on if he's not going home right away (the bar) what 's disrespect. I work to and I I'd like to go for a beer also at times.

2006-07-07 09:50:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous