2006-07-07 11:13:53 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it depends on how much you two enjoy eachother, physically.
you shouldn't be counting your orgasms, you should be counting the times she/he takes your breath away...
2006-07-07 11:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by What'sgoingonhere 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the age of the couple and their circumstances and also on their libido (sex drive). As long as both are happy with the frequency they have sex, a married couple can have sex as much or as little they're happy with. It can be once a day, once a month, or once a year. Every couple is different. If one of the spouses is unhappy about it, then they should talk and come to an agreement.
2006-07-07 11:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Belindita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....uh, it depends how much u both love each other. I mean... if one person works a lot and hardly give attention to his/her spouse they normally make that as an excuse but on the other hand, if u really care about ur spouse and his/her feelings u may find specific days on which u may both make love (have sex). It does't necessarily have to be 7 days a week, unless u want it to. I hope this answers ur question.
2006-07-07 11:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by mustbtru07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not a "duty" to be fulfilled, it is feelings, emotions, love and desire all combined together. If some of these elements are missing then it turns into a mechanical and routine job and withers with time. It all depends on the mutual emotions and the right chemistry of the married couple whom might be acting like young rams and goats after 20 or even 30 years of marriage.
2006-07-07 11:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your spouse are sexually compatible, have sex till both are fully satisfied, whatever frequency that may be. I wonder however, if you're asking this question because you and your partner are not sexually compatible. In which case, sex always must be by mutual agreement. If you're not finding satisfaction within the marriage, get therapy, whether or not your spouse participates. A good therapist will help you find your own answers.
2006-07-07 11:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyday would be great wouldn't it? well I think at least 3 to 4 times per week is pretty normal but the circumstances surrounding your relationship will always prevail when it comes to intimacy. Sex, is just sex. Intimacy takes precedence over any act, regardless of the extenuating circumstances. It could be money troubles, if you love each other the matter is solved with that fact that there is love involved.
2006-07-07 11:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by The Mrs. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule as to when you have sex. It should be up to the couple. There are many factors - Do they have kids, a busy life, work a lot, tired - All these things can contribute to how much sex you have. Just remember - don't make your partner have sex with you. If you are not getting sex- try not putting pressure on her to have sex - you will be amazed at how that works. The more pressure - the more you don't want to do it.
2006-07-07 11:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol....I need to have sex at least 3 to 4 times a week. And I have a partner that is the same. There is no set "times" you should be having sex, there is allot of factors that can happen that can take your time away from each other and sex. If you want more then try spicing it up.
2006-07-07 11:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and that is a regrettable element to have sex beforehand you get married. the man who tries to rigidity you to have sex would not love you, otherwise they does not do this to spoil your existence. So, what takes position is the various women human beings or young ones get pregnant out of wedlock and the guy merely leaves them bc they don't seem waiting for the duty and they did not opt to commence a relatives, in ordinary words needed some interesting at somebody else's fee. sex beforehand marriage is fornication. study I Cor. 6:9-11 & 15-20.
2016-11-01 09:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no required number. It varies with each couple. A married couple should be having as much or as little sex as it pleases them. If one spouse feels there is enough, or too much, or even too little then it is something they need to discuss with their partner.
2006-07-07 11:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by All I Hear Is Blah Blah Blah... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been told by many people that at least once or twice a week is sufficient... it does depend on other circumstances too.
Partners can always ask each other, then take it from there & make a compromise.
2006-07-07 11:21:51 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋