Marriage & Divorce - 7 July 2006

2006-07-07 06:40:11 · 13 answers · asked by Caspers Princess 1

I can't explain my whole story here, but the problem is this. I've been married for 15 years to my first love. We have had our share of ups and downs. I love him with all my heart, but he drinks a lot, his sister is making my life impossible and he returned with a mistress after i forgave him 3 years ago. We have 3 wonderful kids, honor roll students, and he is the greatest dad anyone can wish for. His family is rich (they have cattle ranches) and the kids love their life as it is, going to the farms, and helping the cowboys. That is their future, but i am tired of forgiving. I am extremely good looking, tall, educated, speak 4 languages, stay at home, and everybody says i am a wonderful wife, and seems he is the only one not realizing it. I want out, soon, but i don't want to be the one to blame for tearing apart my kids lives. He says he loves me (and people tell me they can see it in his eyes), but even if he left her, my heart is aching so bad. What can i do?

2006-07-07 06:34:32 · 15 answers · asked by ashley j 2

I dont have sex with my wife because I am scare to have kids
but I masturbate.Its that ok ?

2006-07-07 06:33:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do I do now?

2006-07-07 06:30:31 · 13 answers · asked by sandy64chevy 1

I think men are attracted to that...not some push over...am I right?

2006-07-07 06:27:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex gf and I have been together for 15 yrs. Couple years ago I realized that she wasnt what i wanted and I moved on. Apparently she didnt realized it, because two years ago i met this girl and we started dating kinda in secret. I told my ex a year ago about this new girl and told her im in love with her. She went nuts, she told me she didnt know I had moved on. My actual GF accepted to wait for me to end that nicely, but after 2 years she says this is getting too long. My ex gf and I bought a condo and still live together as friends, she has been my best friend since high school. Now my actual gf has given me an ultimatum, if i dont move out, she will leave me. I told her we are gonna sell the place and split the money soon, so we (my new gf and i) can buy a place for us. She complains that I've been promising to move out since we met and i havent done it yet. She says she cant deal with this anymore.
I dont want to pay rent and mortgage, so i will stay. Am i so wrong?

2006-07-07 06:21:39 · 27 answers · asked by spoiled_noche 1

ADVANTAGES and disadvantages of getting married ? lol

2006-07-07 06:15:42 · 39 answers · asked by DesperateONE 1

my friend's wife is pregnant. he asked me if most people are idle when she is pregnant? i am brave.

2006-07-07 06:14:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dr. Phil says...if the door bells rings answer it....sometimes women ring the bell...there is NO ANSWER...so they keep ringing and ringing and ringing...get my drift???

2006-07-07 06:10:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

if lesbians love one other they should be able to get married and live happily ever after

2006-07-07 06:05:50 · 41 answers · asked by dreka 1

2006-07-07 06:01:24 · 3 answers · asked by saber s 1

How do you know if you are in a"verbally abusive" relationship?

My husband can be mean, moddy, irrational and unreasonable. But when he's good, he's wonderful.

How do I address the problem when he doesnt feel there is a problem to address?

How do I make him understand that I am entitled to my feelings, whether he thinks they are justified or not?

2006-07-07 05:45:48 · 35 answers · asked by lovethesun 3

2006-07-07 05:37:48 · 6 answers · asked by BrilliantPrincess 1

Both women are beautiful but his loyalty lies with the wife because she has been with him through the worst fo times, but he dreams of making love to this other girl. He told me he wished he lived in a country where it would be okay to have 2 wifes. He is ill but still wishes to see the other girl before he is unable too.

2006-07-07 05:22:09 · 10 answers · asked by kentbasner 1

being married doesnt mean that you will never enjoy the things you want to do,it will only means that you already have a companion that can be with you in every time of your life...

2006-07-07 05:20:53 · 15 answers · asked by mrs_budd05 2

Am I old enough to marry now?
I can earn enough to manage my own needs( +1 person's)...and feel I need a soul mate .But I am afraid that If I loose the job I might not be able to fulfill the duties as necessary... So Iam confused wether I should marry or not..!

What would you suggest ?
My family has moved abroad and I live alone with my grandparents(they get pension funds)... I pay phone+electricity bills for my family. I am confused wether I should marry or not?!@#$%^&*()_

Additional Details

1 hour ago
I 'm 21+ some yrs and have some substantial savings to spend... for next 10 yrs if I stop workin now....but I am afraif of the uncertainity of future...I feel my love should not be divided between me grandparents .....! As I am responsible to an extent for their well being...here.

1 hour ago
People with lifetime experiences......HELP ME!!!!!!!

1 hour ago
Is it advisable to be single.....and wait for the time I get single.....till my grandpa's depart to heaven....then I can Bring in a new person in my life......!
I know you must be laughing at my thoughts....but icant help :)

2006-07-07 05:17:47 · 19 answers · asked by DesperateONE 1

cause of some small understandings so should i fight for her or just let her go

2006-07-07 05:09:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I knew the women and we were suppose to be friends. Any way he says they mostly complained about there spouse meaning me and her about her husband. He told me they cybered but what he did was tell her what he wanted to do to me and what he wished i would do. i found a lot of the chats and she persued him. Do you think this is cheating? I made him leave but let him come back to try to work things out we have three children under 5. He said he only talk to her cause he was lonely. I was working second shift and he was home with 2 of the kids. He claimed cause i was working second we didn't feel like a couple. I was pregnant at the time it started also. he says he was not getting enough attention neither was I. I told him i was feeling neglected he never told me. Sorry if this is to much info or not enough lol.

2006-07-07 04:59:43 · 29 answers · asked by SiberianHusky_8 2

Jump the gate and got with someone outside of your marriage. And your husband does not know to this day or are you activly having sex with another man right now because he won't with you there is no right are wrong anwser I just would like to know the truth cause I have had a few experiences with married women and I would like to know why you would have a homie lover friend on the side. NOW BE HONEST is he not performing like he should or use too. Talk to me baby I'm the maintinance man

2006-07-07 04:49:08 · 16 answers · asked by let_it_xhale 2

2006-07-07 04:46:28 · 24 answers · asked by mercury31 1

Men if you were to stare at a girl all the time but when she turns to see who is eyeing her and you look the other way why are you staring so hard in thefirst place. 2nd your staring goes far like when shes sleep or when shes watching tv or in the car ECT. what is going on

I know this sounds kinds weird but i want to know
thanks a million

2006-07-07 04:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it because of the constant battle that’s going on in your mind between your sprit and body?

2006-07-07 04:40:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

After our marriage, my parents bought some homes w/ me as the co-borrower. The homes were bought with parents funds. My husband was not on the loan and he signed a quit claim. What happens to these homes if we get a divorce? Is it still community property if he signed a quit claim?

2006-07-07 04:36:56 · 13 answers · asked by fabmom 1

some people are on this sight for help with a personal problems and some are on to learn, and some of the advice they get means alot too them. my question is why do some people have the dumbest things to say..if u don't have anything useful to say why say anything at all..!!!

2006-07-07 04:35:48 · 39 answers · asked by ? 3

Ok, so heres the thing....My husband and I are best freinds with anouther couple in our area. We all have been friends for going on 3 years now, everythings been great. We all get along great, we are even there youngest sons God parents. So the problem..well sometimes, well a lot of the times, I feel there is almost a "connection" between my husbands friend and I. We flirt really bad and all the time. Kinda in a touchy and sexually way. We have never talked seriously about it but its very noticable to everyone. My husband and his wife even tease us about it. Its like an on-going joke to everyone we know. Now I love my husband and we are very happy but honestly I feel things for this other man. Is the really wrong of me, do you think my husbands friend feels the same way about me? Should I act on these feelings? Should I ask my husband if we should "trade" partners for the night? Does flirting really means he likes me anyway? Any advice you have would help...thanks so much!

2006-07-07 04:34:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lets take religion out of the picture since that is a freedom we should have in the country to differ on. How will it hurt society if my partner and I of 13 years share insurance, money, health and employment benefits, etc. What is the problem..I just dont get it?

2006-07-07 04:25:33 · 26 answers · asked by daleatuop 2

2006-07-07 04:25:21 · 17 answers · asked by djmsr26 2

2006-07-07 04:23:57 · 38 answers · asked by Viviana 1

I am 24 in shape, attractive
he is 25 in shape..we are on no meds
married less than 2 years
sex once a month or can go even longer WITHOUT IT OR FOREPLAY
I have talked to him about it
he says "nothing is wrong..sex isnt important"
He says he is not gay..is not cheating on me
I try NEW things..am always naked around him/take showers with him...try to tease him.
ask him if he wants to do anything new.
he never wants to try anything new
he hates sex toys-- hates porn and doesnt masturbate
He has no interest in sex at all..
I am at wits end...
SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!

2006-07-07 04:15:45 · 56 answers · asked by beAn*s MoMmy 2

My husband is talking to his ex-girl friend of 20 years on his cell.

2006-07-07 04:12:53 · 13 answers · asked by Jro 3