cause of some small understandings so should i fight for her or just let her go
2006-07-07 05:09:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't ask me or anyone you must make the call if you want to try to make up or end it. i would hope you would at least put fourth an effort, I've been married for 12 years and let me tell you a secret, the two words that can save a marriage is, I'm Sorry.
2006-07-07 05:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by The Pooh-Stick Kid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem not to get it, do you? If she moved out is because there were not "small misunderstandings" as you put it, but rather serious issues that needed to be addressed and that you obviously ignored.
I suggest for you to beg and send flowers, but first of all, you must acknowledge that whatever you have done it has hurt her feelings enough for her to walk away. If you keep ignoring the facts and downplay the situation you are not going to get her back.
Accept responsability for your actions and make the necesary changes that need to take place. Otherwise, she is better off with her folks.
Good luck
2006-07-07 05:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probe. You gotta find out what the underlying issue is. I know she won't run out because "you didn't put the toilet seat down." There has to be something major. If she does still love you, find out what you have to do to earn her good graces back. If she doesn't, then try to find out why. Maybe she is trying to see if you'll fight for her. If you really do love her, then you'll step out on faith and do what's necessary.
I work hard to prevent situations like these, because women need their men to listen to them and be their rock. If they feel they don't have that, they can "easily" fall out of love with men.
Gotta put in work, man.
Good luck to you.
P.S. I almost lost my woman. I had to make some changes and be a TRUE man. We can't live without each other now.
2006-07-07 05:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention what these small misunderstandings might be. If you really love her, I would fight for her, but bear in mind if she really doesn't want you anymore... for whatever reason, you may just have to let her go.
Good Luck~*
2006-07-07 05:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because it's something small to you obviously it was not so small to her. Maybe you should try to understand why she really left. You obviously don't want her any more with this dumb *** question I hope it's a joke.
2006-07-07 06:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by victorious_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do so bad where she does not want you anymore?or Who is it that she wants? It must have been a big understanding not small..
2006-07-07 05:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by tshee70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't sound like you really worry about YOU WIFE LIVING YOU, if you even care you will be there rigth now trying to get her back ,rater than just sit and wait, you have to think and be honest with yourself is you love this woman then don't wait another minute and go get her back,the more the you wait the more she think the you don't care and less chance to get her back
2006-07-07 05:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny how the guys answers are different from the girls. Fight for her! that's what girls want--We like to play hard to get. Send her flowers, etc.
2006-07-07 05:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wives don't leave over small misunderstandings. I think you were trying to cheat and got caught, now your trying to down play it.
2006-07-07 05:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should fight for her...unless you are emotionally or physically abusive, or an addict. If that's the case, move on and get help.
2006-07-07 05:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋