Marriage & Divorce - 7 July 2006

Because the problems in our breakup have to do with his doing drugs - his not financially helping with our twin baby girls - and money he stole from me - his family has decided to not contact me to see the babies. For two months out of the four and half months of their precious lives his family has not tried to see them. I have had an argument about "precious Michael" with his mother and his paternal grandmother where I did tell them both where to put it as far as defending him- but after two months its time to move on- do you agree. I guess I think my children are blessings and I feel guilty for them not seeing them - even when they choose not to try. I told all of them that I would not keep them from him... but my guess is he has told them not to contact me. He did not like it when we all started comparing notes on his drug habit and ganging up on him - should I try to contact them or should I let them contact me?

2006-07-07 09:45:44 · 16 answers · asked by a1025goodgirl 1

in our wedding for insertion of cok I have problem with my wife because it is around 30 inch?and I am confuse about this matter why she is fearing about it oh my God please helpe so what can I do for solve this problem really I can not cut my cok

2006-07-07 09:42:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Also, for religious reasons.

2006-07-07 09:41:27 · 17 answers · asked by Pepper 2

Thanks to all who took the time to provide me with personal opinions about my post about the sister-in-law, the email and my husband seeing another woman. I was wanting to know would it be wrong of me to go out with my friends after he this mess happened between me and my husband. He hasn't called me all day but I know he's there with her,but he says he wants to be with me. I guess toss the old guy and go shopping for a new one!!!

I am so darn confused

2006-07-07 09:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by angelface_22_fl 1

I am married but I work with someone that I feel I may be attracted too, I love my husband to death and would never hurt him. I dont know if I should quit my job or what. Please help. (Only serious answers please)

2006-07-07 09:27:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I enjoy picking my toenails and eating the fugus on the corner of my toes. It has a chewy taste to it. Will I get sick from it?

2006-07-07 09:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife thinks Im strange cuz i want to be with her almost every day, and she doesnt feel like it just two or three times a week. Do I have a problem? or does she?

2006-07-07 09:22:55 · 30 answers · asked by plw3dug 2

My wife deserted me and the kids and then told the court I was dangerous and violent. I was forced to leave the house with the kids. She says she is confused. The kids after visiting her say she is very paranoid. One minute she is as nice as can be and the next a perverbial bi**h. She says she is fine and her counselor boyfriend told her she does not need to see a doctor. I find out he works for the DA's office on domestic abuse cases as a counselor and also he has no quailfications for being a counselor.
He has no education credentials in psychology and the only experience he has with counseling is with AAA because he is a alcoholic. I complained to the DA's office and they would do nothing. I approached the States Attorneys' office and they did nothing. I waited 5 years and finally filed for and got the divorce in
April 2005. It is a shame that things can happen like that and you cannot do a thing about it..

2006-07-07 09:14:47 · 3 answers · asked by Rover57 1

2006-07-07 09:13:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 09:13:06 · 9 answers · asked by GOOCHER13 1

2006-07-07 09:08:30 · 27 answers · asked by CURIOUS 3

Should I keep my personal feelings of the issue to myself? She has cheated on me with him before and it is hard for me to trust her on this issue. What do you think?

2006-07-07 09:06:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just moved in with my fiance and I can't get him movtiated to help me do chores. I work from 8 until 5 everyday and he doesn't go to work until 1pm. He sleeps all morning and when I get home, nothing has been done around the house and there is a bigger mess than before I left. I don't want to nag him and have him thinnk that I am going to be a bad wife,but I am tired of having to end up doing everything myself. Can anyone out there give me some pointers?

2006-07-07 09:05:52 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 08:53:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married for a while, almost 10 years. We have one child and we work opposite shifts ( I'm a full time college student and own my own business, he works second shift) We don't see each other much through the day. I've noticed a lot of marriages around 10 years tend to go "stale". Don't want this to happen to us. Still wanna knock his socks off and remind him a lot that I was the best decision he's ever made. I'm a great cook, take great care of my body, take great care of our child, always keep a spotless home and schedule "guy time" with his buddies every or every other Sat. Any advice on what else I can do?

2006-07-07 08:47:54 · 21 answers · asked by Jo 2

after six years and a one year old son and if so can the man do anything to help speed up this process. also what should i do until then.

2006-07-07 08:41:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 08:40:13 · 28 answers · asked by Paul R 1

My mom isgetting married to a man who thinks he owns me. I've tried many ways to prevent this wedding, but was not successful. Now they're getting hitched July 8th. HELP ME!!!

2006-07-07 08:37:41 · 17 answers · asked by 29626 1

He has told me before sex is not that important to him. He said he only needs it like 2 times a month. Well I'm lucky if I get that. Hes in his mid thirties I'm in my mid twenties. Okay but a few years ago he had masturbated too much with no lubricant and tore the skin off it. He had to wrap his penis for two weeks with gauze. Made me sick. Now a few days ago I find lube in a shoe in his closet. I'm a little freaked out. I'm a pretty girl with a good body I take care of myself and look nice for him every day. Also I've always been a freak in the bed so whats his problem? Could he be gay?

2006-07-07 08:35:27 · 19 answers · asked by ajaxwashere 2

Hypothetical Question:

You are happily married for 5 years, you have a child after those 5 years. The child looks like you both but when the child is 3 your spouse tells you that the child is not yours. What would you do?

2006-07-07 08:33:52 · 20 answers · asked by Fishgutts 4

2006-07-07 08:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by twizzles06 1

I posted this a while ago:
"My wife and I have been married for over two years now, we have a 1 year old son. I am a doctor and she is a housewife.

Last night, I came home early only to find her naked in bed, with BOTH of my best friends.

I was completely heart broken, I confronted her later and she said that she had their cumm in her while we were dating (before we even got married). The language she used was worse than what I saw her do, she was completely different.

Today, I am setting up an appointment to see if my son is truly mine.

What should I do?"

I found out that he is not my son.

I need advice on how I can END this relationship with both the son (who now I don't have a problem detaching from) and wife (soon to be ex-).

How did you get a divorce from your wife, it probably wasn't as serious as this but HOW? What is the easiest way?

2006-07-07 08:25:12 · 21 answers · asked by Charles D 1

2006-07-07 08:21:37 · 18 answers · asked by Jodi 1

I've been married for seven years. I've read most of the realtionship books out there about keeping it interesting over time. Just want to keep my husband as happy as possible in ALL areas. Mainly looking for answers from men but any advice will do. ( he treats me great in case your wondering).

2006-07-07 08:19:57 · 15 answers · asked by Jo 2

What can I do to make me want to be with him? I don't feel close to him and he mistreats me - so that part of our relationship is suffering as well....

2006-07-07 08:18:30 · 18 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3

She is five and now she has started having behavioral problems and talking back and saying she hates me and I am the reason she doesn't have a home. Her grandparents and father are helping her learn all the renarks.

2006-07-07 08:17:36 · 39 answers · asked by beadiemae 1

2006-07-07 08:11:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Look me in the eye. Are you?

2006-07-07 08:09:34 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Humpjeans 2

I am 62 and he is vested at his work and can retire. Do I have to be retired to draw his benefits when he gets them

2006-07-07 08:09:28 · 3 answers · asked by nansam 1

it is kinda scary!!

2006-07-07 08:09:04 · 16 answers · asked by happygolucky456 1