What can I do to make me want to be with him? I don't feel close to him and he mistreats me - so that part of our relationship is suffering as well....
2006-07-07 08:18:30 · 18 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course Im not cheating!!! I would never want to defile myself like that. He cheated on me while I was pregnant with our son. I'm so depressed....I'm trying to make things work for my son's sake - and I really try to be a good wife....
2006-07-07 08:40:59 · update #1
If you're looking for permission to leave, consider it granted.
2006-07-07 08:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by U. N. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you need to resolve with your husband by telling him how you feel. If he is mistreating you then of course you won't want to have sex. Sex without love is a chore in that respect and if you don't feel it is going anywhere positive. Exit stage left. Leave and find a better life for yourself. Good luck.
2006-07-07 15:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a good therapist. You and your husband have serious relationship problems, and with a child involved it's not responsible to make a quick and easy decision. Invite him to go with you to therapy. But if he won't go with you, go anyway. You need to sort out why you accept mistreatment, why you don't want sex, and if you want to stay. A good therapist will help you uncover your own answsers.
2006-07-07 17:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you resent this man in any way then you phsically are unable to have sex with him unless forced, in which case it would be rape. You need to leave him you don't have to put up with being mistreated by anyone.
2006-07-07 15:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he mistreats you? Well before I take your word on this...I would like to hear his side.....Only because my future ex wife was saying that about me...when all I did was work come home( no sleeping around or hitting her) bring her flowers, foot rubs, bubble baths,....by her new pajamas ( she loved pajamas)....and all for what ...so she would stop making love to me and start Messing around on me behind my back..... that's exactly what she told him to lure him in.....So I would ask what things are you doing too to make this situation worsen....Please don't cheat & If you are ...please stop it...just get some counseling for you two & work it out.
I will be praying for you.
2006-07-07 15:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he mistreats you then get out! You deserve to be treated with respect and if he can't respect you, then he doesn't need to expect you to have sex with him. If you don't feel like being with him sexually then don't! Get rid of him and find yourself a real man who will respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated and then you will feel that desire to have sex again.
2006-07-07 15:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by BRANDON W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he mistreats you and you're not attracted to him any more I think it's time for either counseling or a divorce.
2006-07-07 15:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not interested to have sex with your husband then you dont want to have legal hairs its better if you strat giving him respect receprocaly you will respect too and will be a happy couple .
2006-07-07 16:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by nectar_pk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with him if you don't feel close, don't have sex, & he mistreats you? Seems like common sense.....
2006-07-07 15:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you WANT to have sex with someone that mistreats you?!!
2006-07-07 15:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by starrynite1958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your depression might have something to do with it, plus if he mistreats you, then why have sex with him. if you are doing it for your kid, then leave him cus your kid will be ok with just you. go out there and find your hapiness
2006-07-07 16:00:40 · answer #11 · answered by estefany v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋