after six years and a one year old son and if so can the man do anything to help speed up this process. also what should i do until then.
2006-07-07 08:41:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im still madly in love with her and want her back unconditionally
2006-07-07 09:43:44 · update #1
Yes, you can...but, it takes A LOT of patience and change of heart. The question I have for is, is he worth it? If he and your relationship ARE worth it, then YOU can make it happen. It's called unconditional love...which means you love the person no matter what he does or what he says. It means that you treat that person like you want to be treated and never ask for anything in return. It also means that you do not announce the fact that you are doing any of these things also. It's a very personal thing and you have to want it to happen bad enough that you make it your number one priority to love this man...it's VERY difficult...but it is possible...I know, because I have done it...more than once actually. Just consider the reasons why you are doing it, though. It has to be for yourself...not for him and not for your son...Y-O-U.
OOOPS...I see now that a MAN asked this question...what a dork I am.
LOTS AND LOTS of patience. Love her unconditionally...make it your number one priority every day to do something that makes her happy...make her life better.
Good luck Daniel.
2006-07-07 08:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If there is no 'apparent' reason for the 'falling out of love' then it just may be a case of a fantisful immature woman. First thing, don't grovel. There is no more attractive thing to a woman than a man who displays that 'he can do without'. It really gets em. Take charge and live as though it really does not matter. I've seen it work wonders. Wish you the best and hope the mom grows up a bit and soon.
2006-07-07 15:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mike R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can fall in love with the "same" man. I'm sure both of you have changed and have found comfort and love in these new arms but with familiar faces. I love stories like these! I think it's reassuring that people can change for the better all the time!
2006-07-07 15:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by rebekahfayth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Makes no sense t all, but usually there is a little dormant spark from the initial relationship that can be brought back to life. Some people get under your skin and stay there.
Be nice to her, be like you were in her memories. Don't jerk her around but be steady and available and she'll start to think that she needs to take another look at you. Don't rush it whatever you do. But stay in her eyeline.
2006-07-07 15:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes! That's called life. All relationships have ups and downs. When you stick it out, try to make it work, and devote yourself to making your partner happy you will love deeper than you did before.
2006-07-07 16:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by r0cky74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup...go back to what made you fall in love with him in the first place....it's like a puzzle, you have to slowely try and put the pieces together....you can't put a 5000 piece puzzle together overnight...it takes a while...with lots of patience...been there and done it..in love again.
2006-07-07 15:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lust for Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course. Bring up old happy times. Be yourself it will all come together. Everything is workable. Just put ur heart into it.
2006-07-07 15:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can happen!!! I was there...but it did not work out for us.We are divorced now..But I do have a new love.. and happier than ever!!!! Good luck!!!
2006-07-07 15:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by motorcyclelovinmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you can, i know i did. It just took a lot of little things that he was doing, flowers, suprises, romantic getaways. etc.
2006-07-07 15:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by estefany v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,i did it is not bad to love him aging
2006-07-07 15:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by mika_mika938 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋