Thanks to all who took the time to provide me with personal opinions about my post about the sister-in-law, the email and my husband seeing another woman. I was wanting to know would it be wrong of me to go out with my friends after he this mess happened between me and my husband. He hasn't called me all day but I know he's there with her,but he says he wants to be with me. I guess toss the old guy and go shopping for a new one!!!
I am so darn confused
2006-07-07 09:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by angelface_22_fl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXXXXyou deserve better. High time to kick him to the curb. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-08 17:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with my friends if I were you too. Personally me I would wait to look for a new guy since you might be getting out of a serious relationship. Your husband needs to find out who he wants to be with and if he chooses you are you willing to be with him after what he did to you? The question is are you going to be happy with him? Because if not like you said toss the old guy there's plenty of fish in the water.
2006-07-07 09:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by brenda0697 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend....take a deep breath...you are a married woman despite your husbands ungodly behavior! Emotionally you are in no shape to receive or offer anyone anything. Maybe it would be a good idea to just take a few moments to sit quietly and send up what I like to call an "SOS" prayer to the Lord. He listens! Lend yourself to the Lord God, the author & creator of relationships. All I can say from experience...is you can have what you once had before...just pray for a renewal in your marriage...if you are too hurt at the moment...Ask God for his comfort and grace and mercy thru this time...but no matter the situation or time...lean on the Lord...He is waiting for you to call on Him! Best of everything.
2006-07-07 09:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by diane b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friends and have a good time but don't go shopping for a new guy. You need to divorce this one first and take some time to get your life back together before you go shopping for a new relationship.
2006-07-07 09:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with your friends. clear your mind and try to get new energy. you will need it. you need to get divorced quickly and you need all the help you can from your friends. don't go looking for mr. right . get divorced first. then you are a new woman.dont listen to your hubby. men say a lot of things but unless you see changes,you cant cange your decisions.
2006-07-07 09:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's moved on, then why hold on? Go out with your girls, talk to other guys, dance, and have fun, but you don't need to give out your number yet. Not till your over him.
2006-07-09 17:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl... don't you understand? What he says doesn't matter. It's what he does. My wife had some great wisdom I'll pass on to you:
"When a man SHOWS you who he really is, even once, believe him."
2006-07-07 09:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He doesn't deserve you and you shouldn't even be thinking about giving him a second chance if he's with this other girl.
2006-07-07 09:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can undertand what toy ae saying eak clearly
2006-07-07 09:47:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET RIDE OF HIM IT WILL NEVER BE JUST THE 2 OF U
2006-07-07 09:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by sexy mexican 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋