My wife thinks Im strange cuz i want to be with her almost every day, and she doesnt feel like it just two or three times a week. Do I have a problem? or does she?
2006-07-07 09:22:55 · 30 answers · asked by plw3dug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Her desire is probably more common than yours, but that's not saying your desire is abnormal or overboard...especially when the "new" wears off a relationship, it's very common for frequency of sex to lessen...
Is she willing to compromise? Perhaps every other day? Maybe 3 or 4 times a week instead of 2 or 3? If not, how serious is this issue to you? Incompatible or unmatched sex drives have been known to seriously hurt relationships.
2006-07-07 09:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very common for two people to have different sex drives. But, the one thing you have to figure out, is what can you live without and what can she live with.
When my wife and I were in counseling the counselor told my wife a man physically needs sex 2 - 3 times a week to be happy. My wife thinks 1 a week is idea. We have compromised to 1 a week. I don't think this will keep me around. But your situation is up to you. Is it that important? Is she will to give in and meet your needs to a point you can live with?
2006-07-07 09:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by wn_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every day of the week. At least 2 or 3 times a day. That would be nice. If I was with someone and I had the opportunity, we'd hardly ever be dressed.
2006-07-07 09:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Becky Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no normal number. What ever works for the two of you is normal. But if you go from once a day to never you might question what is going on.
2006-07-07 09:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Literally different strokes for different folks.
As for me, twice a week is more than fine. Some people like it every day, some only like it once a week or so.
My husband is fine with twice a week and if he gets horny more often, then he masturbates. No problem!
2006-07-07 09:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by spike_is_my_evil_vampire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 times or more
2006-07-07 09:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real amount of times. Every person is different. That doesn't mean that either you or her have a problem she may just be tired or not in the mood.
2006-07-07 09:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she does
its not normal for anyone to have it 3 times a week.
the minimum requirement is 7 to 8 times a week anything below that amount would be seen as abnormal.
suggest you get urgent medical advice for this problem from someone else other than me!
2006-07-07 09:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 times a week
3 days at 2 times a day
3 days at 1 time a day
1 day off
2006-07-07 09:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she doesn't enjoy sex as much as u do then there might be a problem. U should ask yourself if you are doing your part to get her in the mood, and finishing what u started. Ask her just be straight and don't Bede around the bush.
2006-07-07 10:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋