I've been married for seven years. I've read most of the realtionship books out there about keeping it interesting over time. Just want to keep my husband as happy as possible in ALL areas. Mainly looking for answers from men but any advice will do. ( he treats me great in case your wondering).
2006-07-07 08:19:57 · 15 answers · asked by Jo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think sjrocksop hit it on the head.
But here are my top 3:
1) tons of affection. Run to him when he comes home and greet him with a hug and kiss and attention.
2) sex. It's been said throughout, but really gets a man going. Not just every day, but make it special each time. Do things that rock his world and act like you enjoy it.
3) time. Men want to think they are the king of their castle. If you give him time:
- to be alone
- to be with friends
- to be with you
He will love you for ever.
2006-07-07 09:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by wn_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Sex (obvious)
2. When in the company of your husband, tell your best friend(the one that he really resents you spend so much time with) that you won't hang out with her and that you want to hang out with him. This will boost his esteem. As men, we need this!
3. Treat him to a bubble bath. But this can only be effective if you are in the bath with him. Have a radio in the bathroom with it tuned to his favorite station or a ball game, and serve his favorite drink. He will eat this up, and will treat you like a queen (at least for the rest of the week :)
2006-07-07 08:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by J. Brigante 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
three things I would want my wife would do.
1. Be spontaneous, about sex, dinner, movies anything. Girls like it when guys are strong and make decisions. It goes both ways.
2. Turn the other cheek in argument sometimes. Just agree to disagree and get on with your lives.
3. Find out what your partners dreams/fantasies are and try to make them come true. This goes both ways. If he ever wanted to go skydiving or scuba diving. Get him or her lessons. he or she always wanted to go somewhere, travel. Europe/Asia start a vacation fund and always talk about it. And if you are truly a close cpl find out what your secret sexual fantasies are and try to live them to a reasonable extent. Do not ever forget you have one life and you must live it. You do not get do overs.
That might be a little more advice than you were looking for.
2006-07-07 08:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by sjrocksop 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Clean the house if you are sitting at home watching HGTV
Cook a good fresh meal atleast once aday for me
Have sex like your 18 again or call an 18 year old over to give you a refresher course
2006-07-07 08:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by around3am 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be understanding that he is a man and needs attention too. Touching and listening are appreciated by men too. Be adventurous in the sex department (most men who go to hookers desire oral sex). Surprise him with say: love notes, a night out to his favorite restaurant, tickets to his favorite team or just a movie.
2006-07-07 08:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by 7782264 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the kids to a sitter before he gets home from work (if you have them).
Meet him at the door completely naked
Serve his dinner completely naked by candelight.
Problem solved.
2006-07-07 09:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Hello A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one night - act like a porn star for him. Take him out, drink a bit, come home and be the assertive one.
get a book called 1001 romantic nights - excellent ideas.
2006-07-07 08:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cook. Clean. Pay her bills ontime.
2006-07-07 08:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by nortexplaya 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you need to be able to realize when we are "vegging" out, so please be quiet and do not talk to us during this time....do not nag us or reminds us of something that needs to be done, we know about the to do list, we know what is on it, we want it done just like you do...sex, be open for it and bring it whenever, wherever...surprise us...
2006-07-07 08:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We men are very simple
1. don't try to change him
2. don't compair him to other men
3. give him so much sex that he won't want another
2006-07-07 08:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by RG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋