Marriage & Divorce - 7 July 2006

answer for both genders !...this might save my frineds' marriage as well !....

2006-07-07 04:08:38 · 18 answers · asked by DesperateONE 1

Or was it because of her own stupidity and ignorance that allows herself to be verbally and emotionally abused by the husband?

2006-07-07 04:06:00 · 10 answers · asked by DiL 3

My abusive husband is now gone after 3 years of beating I couldn't handle it...But now I'm a FREE WOMAN!!!!!!! Are you proud of me...????

2006-07-07 04:04:43 · 17 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

My wife and I had problems. I began making the changes and things have been more pleasant between us. She used to say that I avoided our problems. Now I am confronting her and she avoids discussing it.

She used to be ambitious but now she's not. I have several goals and I am working on them. So I'm very busy trying to make my dreams come true.

But I come home late and I see her just chatting online. I am starting to see her as lazy and not pursuing her dreams. I have tried encouraging her but I can't force her.

I said we should go out together and spend sometime together; even just for a drink and talk. She agreed.

However, she's not taking any initiative. She said she's going out tonight. I just said okay but it's bothering me because she made no effort to make plans for the two of us.

She takes no initiative in the relationship and is losing her ambitions. I'm feeling like I've outgrown her.

What's going on and what can I do?

2006-07-07 04:01:12 · 8 answers · asked by Sexual chocolate 1

pregnant we have two children but third is not mine happened when we separated,i feel trapped by guilt for wanting to leave, but cannot for fear of hurting my kids again am i wrong? we have no intimacy between me and wife,i need more am i being selfish?

2006-07-07 03:58:24 · 9 answers · asked by viking_chef53 2

If so, can you give a reason why? Did you pursue it for emotional or physical (or both) reasons?

Note: If you have an "open" relationship or this was a one time ("I was drunk") thing, the question may not apply to you.

2006-07-07 03:52:11 · 9 answers · asked by classical123 4

2006-07-07 03:46:40 · 7 answers · asked by Lahahu 1

I need help w/ a inexpensive divorce and child custody in texas? Im a mom of 1 w/ man that doesnt want to support family by working and treats me like crap.

2006-07-07 03:43:29 · 3 answers · asked by Hillary R 2

2006-07-07 03:42:49 · 7 answers · asked by dalcari 1

Is it really true that after you get married that the frequency of sex dwindles down? Cause it seems most of the married women I sleep with like to have sex constantly. Cause if sex after marriage slows down alot I will definitley never get married...I guess I will just have to stick with married women.

2006-07-07 03:30:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is constantly complaining about the little amount of sex we have.. about 4 times a month. We have 2 little kids (one who never sleeps), and I am a stay at home mom with Non-Traditional homemaker roles. (fix stuff, mow the lawn, blah blah) So, after 2 or 3 fights, I decided that I was just going to make myself have sex even if I was too tired to walk to bed. After 2 weeks of sex 4 times a week, he starts complaining that " I can go too far with this crap" WHAT THE HELL

2006-07-07 03:30:53 · 15 answers · asked by Imani 5

2006-07-07 03:30:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

One night I was doing foreplay for him and he has his cell phone in one hand texting his friend. If I try to get on top I caught him looking away. He tells me during the day that he wants to then he just does foreplay and expects everything to be alright. He said that me wanting dick is selfish! Is he gay? Cause he and that male friend that he was texting are very close!

2006-07-07 03:27:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy who said he wanted a divorce but never file paper for almost five years.
He got kick out by wife five years ago.
He still goes home every week to see his grown kids and wife.
He doesn't have a girlfriend.

2006-07-07 03:16:58 · 8 answers · asked by h2o 2

My husband and i are seperated. We're still friends and get along fairly well. He still lives in OUR house. The house is in both our names. I give my husband his privacy. I call him and let him know when i'm coming over and when I go in the house when he's not there. We have an understanding that that is still half mine and i have rights to the house . Well, another friend of his moved in a few weeks before i left a little over a year and a half ago. This friend of his doesn't like me. Which I really don't care if he does or not. Well, to make a long story short he likes to lock all the doors in the house . I have keys to everything except the front door. Well, that friend of his (which use to be my friend too) Locked both the back door & the screen door to where i couldn't get in. I think he did it on pourpose. Now my husband said he's just paranoid & has a thing about locking doors. I think he's just a spiteful little s!*@ and did it on pourpose. What do you think?

2006-07-07 03:13:47 · 12 answers · asked by Belle 3

My Man and I have been together for 3 1/2 years and we have been living together for 2 years. we have disagreements but they never go Far! anyway he says ugly things to me like if i left he wouldnt chase me/ or umm he wants a women with big breast (im only a C cup) he knew this when he met me. he hasnt came out and said i dont wnat you or love you... What does he want he still get jealous and insecure about things but he shouldnt becuase he dosent care Right?

2006-07-07 03:10:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is always accusing me of stealing her lighter. But in reality she looses them.

And she is constantly calling me a Jackass

2006-07-07 03:10:00 · 24 answers · asked by married man 1

How should I prepare for the move? I am not asking whether it is right or wrong? Just some some tips.....Thanx

2006-07-07 03:08:32 · 12 answers · asked by cndipas 1

I am pakistani.i want to get marriage with a uk nationilty holder. Is An body is willing.

2006-07-07 03:04:17 · 16 answers · asked by ali u 1

It was Fourth of July and my husband and I were sitting on the couch watching television. He got up and went into his den to get on the computer. I did not think anything of it because I've always had complete trust in him. But when I came to see what he was doing, he was viewing pornograghy. I know guys look at that stuff and I could understand alittle more if I was not home. BUT WHY WOULD HE CHOOSE PORN OVER ME?

2006-07-07 03:03:19 · 22 answers · asked by godwon2 2

We've been married for 2,5 year. I can definitely say that we love each other. but my Huby has a problem...or it's me who has a problem. Everything, everything whatever it happens IS MY FAULT. I bought a hammer, it's broke - MY FAULT. He couldn't set up clock on my cd-player that I boought for my car - MY FAULT. He told me once on last friday, that he needed some paper(I know where it is). I forgot. Because it was a week ago. And now He remembered that and blamed me for forgetting. I admit, that I foget things, because I have too many things going on in my life. I study, I work in the company where I do accountanting for 8 companies, I do my our business....of course I forget things. I tell him, I forget, I'm a mass person.
But the only thing I ask is not to YEAL at me with "f" words!!! How can I let him know that he isn't right?
I pray that he understands...

2006-07-07 03:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by Young_woman 2

He does not like her to dress sexy unless they are at home. When they are out, if she talks to someone of the opposite sex, they have a huge fight.

In every other way, he is a great guy...but i am worried that his not allowing her to be herself may cause a huge rift and ruin their raltionship and future marriage.

What do you think? How would you advise my sister to proceed?

2006-07-07 03:02:12 · 3 answers · asked by Wild seed 4

My Husband is seriously sick!! The doctor say he would die within a month. I am grieving at the moment. But what is really killing me, is that when he dies, I will have to marry his younger brother! My cultures are different from theirs. I have explained to my husband now that he is alive and he told me he will talk to his brother about me not being comfortable with that because of the cultural difference. He has spoken to him, but the whole family and hius brother refused. It's part of their tradition and it has to be that way!
I want to kill myself now!! I am going to be handed down as a piece of meat!! What do I do? Please help me

2006-07-07 02:58:14 · 19 answers · asked by Dee 1

I am trying to catch my husband cheating. I want to call his work and pretend I am another women, but I need to purchase a voice changer. I don't know where to get them or what they are called.? I need it in a higher pitched women's voice. I need a good one so he doesn;t know it is me. Any ideas???

2006-07-07 02:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_lovable_girl 1

2006-07-07 02:56:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 02:55:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-07 02:50:48 · 21 answers · asked by kick 1

How would i know that my man of 3 1/2 years Dosent love me anymore? hes not the type i can just ask becuase he will always say I Dont Know... to anything just bout

2006-07-07 02:47:36 · 12 answers · asked by gotchafool05 3

Ive been married for almost 2 years he has had atleast 15 minimum wage jobs that he has screwed off becuz he had smthing better to do or was "sick". Neverthinks about me and the baby just him and how hes gonna get high.his mother pays for all the babys needsHe treats me like crap and calls me names says I dont do anything i should just get a job and let him stay home. I cook and clean and take care of our 16mnth old child. He drives me nuts. Im tired of this and Im gonna leave him as soon as we get back from vacation at my moms,she even got him a good job for a while and he wont go. Im tired of his ****.he keeps making jokes like im really not gonna divorce him. he sd i would call him baby for the rest of my life no matter if we had a divorce or not. just stupid stuff but his ways have made me so crazy that i just cant stand him anymore. please help any opion about it is appreciated.

2006-07-07 02:44:52 · 18 answers · asked by Hillary R 2

I only can think about how fine and sexy my husband is, but he still thinks about other chicks every once in a while, why is it so hard for him to think only of me??????? I am a really beautiful girl (I think) Is this a problem or am I jealous?????

2006-07-07 02:43:55 · 25 answers · asked by **What??** 4