How would i know that my man of 3 1/2 years Dosent love me anymore? hes not the type i can just ask becuase he will always say I Dont Know... to anything just bout
2006-07-07 02:47:36 · 12 answers · asked by gotchafool05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whew! he tell me he loves me everyday, and he does the providing thing, and holidays, anniversaries, birthdays are not forgotten. but he seems kinds distant
2006-07-07 02:57:34 · update #1
it isn't what he says, it is what he does and how you feel it...if he doesn't love you anymore you'll feel it and the fact you have to ask the question probably means you already know...
2006-07-07 02:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not what he says it what he does that really matters and you will know from this. Having been married for 19 years I still love my wife dearly and its the little things we do to show this. listening to what she has to say, asking about her day, making a cup of tea, getting her something she needs when shes under the weather, a little kiss no and then, a back rub after a hard day even if she hasnt asked for it. As I said its just the little things and these have to be reciprocated but if your even asking this question you are already having doubts. Good luck and I hope you sort it
2006-07-07 09:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by cursedterror 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that only you know if he still loves you or not. It's the little things that he did to show you how he felt. I they dissapear then you know... Most times the problem isn't knowing if he loves you or not, but you admitting to yourself that the best thing to do is move on. We tend to get really comfortable with someone and just accept that that person doesn't put in the effort any more. I hope I was able to help, and try to remember that everything happens for a reason!
Smiles
2006-07-07 10:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by canadian_strongandfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was the type of guy that would do little things for you then stops. If he used to say I love you everyday, but now does not. If he spends more time away from you then before. If any of these things are happening, it could mean he is not loving you anymore. Sorry.
2006-07-07 09:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by b_iceman2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often does he say, "I love you?" thats key. Does he spend less time with you now a days? Watch t.v. in a different room? Does he suggest new things to do, like go to dinner somewhere new or take a trip...these are all things to look for. Dont look at the sex part because men want that no matter what. Good Luck
2006-07-07 09:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Fabio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says "I don't know" to anything then he is like me and he probably doesn't love you anymore. Many years ago when I fell out of love with someone I just got distant from my woman until I finally said I'm done.
2006-07-07 09:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by NOVA50 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he doesn't know, then I suspect he doesn't, is unsure, or does know and is too afraid or nice to say what he really feels. After that long a time, it may be that he still cares enough not to want to hurt you but he's not feeling the same as he used to.
2006-07-07 09:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Wahrsuul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he still bring you flowers when you least expect him too? All relationships lose that spark,we all have to work at keeping our mates interests. Do you sense any changes? Subtle ones? Do you still do things together as a couple?
2006-07-07 09:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know is a complete lie, if the best answer he can come up with to a simple question is i don't know, then he is obviously trying to hide the real truth, ask him the question and don't take i don't know for an answer, i only hope that you're a good lie dectecter
2006-07-07 09:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn around in the middle of the night and act like you don't feel good.Ask him if he can make you some tea, or get you Advil or something if he doesn't get up or does it with aggravation then you know.
2006-07-07 09:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by leeshy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋