My Man and I have been together for 3 1/2 years and we have been living together for 2 years. we have disagreements but they never go Far! anyway he says ugly things to me like if i left he wouldnt chase me/ or umm he wants a women with big breast (im only a C cup) he knew this when he met me. he hasnt came out and said i dont wnat you or love you... What does he want he still get jealous and insecure about things but he shouldnt becuase he dosent care Right?
2006-07-07 03:10:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats mental abuse sweetie, its not right, hes fooling around on you or will,like you said he knew what you looked like, so he dosent really want to be with you, hes jealous, so he can have you for when he cant get it any where else, but nobody else can have you, drop him like a hot potate sweetie, hes no good, and it will get worse, you dont need that problem, your probley a gorgous women ,and very sweet and kind, and he knows it ,he knows you could get somebody else, and he dont want that.hell run you down saying nobody will want you, your ugly your to skinny what ever to make you insecure, get out now.good luck sweetie
2006-07-07 03:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your man is trying to be the typical Alpha-male... but in a rude way.
What I mean by this is, for ages, some men have been the aggressors... these are the guys who pulled your hair or punched you when you were in Grade 2... but they still liked you. These are the same guys who will quietly tell you he loves you, but in the same sentence, tells you your butt is too big.
If it bothers you... tell him. If it makes you feel crappy... tell him.
At the same time though, you should look at it from the other perspective: He's with you for a reason, and it's more than big breasts... so while he may like a D-Cup... he likes YOU more than a D-cup.
2006-07-07 10:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Village Idiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is afraid of showing you he is hooked on you.
His I don't care attitude is really (crap what would I do if she left me ) He has been hurt real bad in the past!
As far as the big breast thing Hmmm your a C ? that's works for me. Guys like cleavage get some push together bra's and let him eye feast on your cleavage. C is a great size for a good cleavage. OK enough of that , is it hot in here ????
2006-07-07 10:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by antho2820 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is acting in a very unmatured manner. He perhaps feels that you cannot live without him and is trying to take advantage of the situation. You dont have to leave him but have to only reason out with him and a little forcefully. He should learn to respect you and your felings. Sizes and all dont matter in love, i mean true love and not lust. He should behave like a grown up man and give up his bad thoughts. Teach him in your own way.
2006-07-07 10:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by sacredlovingheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for all those years he should be deeply in love with you but it seems it isnt the case.the man doesnot know what he wants for hes confusd.one time he degrades you and the other he gets jealous and insecure for that matter pretend and do flirt with male friends in his presence and he will soon realise that you are up for grabs which will make him think twice about letting you go that easily without a fight and that will bring back the memories and he will come back to earth.
2006-07-07 10:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by muwanguzi t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually if a guy says something like that i think that he may have felt betrayed, or hurty by you maybe. but you should surely talk it out with him, voice your concern. Thats what i do with my wife, i never keep anything from her, except about when i crunched her car when we were dating and blamed it on the brakes lol. try and work it out, there are way too many divorces happening today. people usually want the easy way out nowadays, dont let your marriage slowly dim out, fight for it, love in a marriage is definitely worth fighting for! and i dont think a c cup is small at all, i think its just right.
2006-07-07 10:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh baby he still love you, you just have to turn up the heat in the bedroom do something you have never done before that will ease some of the tension trust me so get yours baby
2006-07-07 11:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by let_it_xhale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all a c cup is not small its nice sized. secondly, its human to still get jealous, thirdly if people do say things that they regret saying when they are mad. if you like to talk more you can email me.
2006-07-07 10:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gor serious issues and doesn't know how to deal with them, so he takes out his frustrations on you.
Either he learns how to deal with his problems appropriately, or else leave the SOB before it gets worse.
2006-07-07 10:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wold you ever cop on to yourself. get his belongings and toss his lame *** in the garbage where it belongs. their is only room for one door math in a home and its at the outside of the door , So stop been a silly victim and stand up for yourself, tell him to feck off and dump him.
2006-07-07 10:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by brian_the_lion2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋