2006-07-07 10:05:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats not your responsibility
2006-07-07 10:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by ranger_girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well how old are you, and are they married? If they're not married, stay out of it, because it's none of her business. If they are, she deserves to know, but you shouldn't be in the middle of it. Don't let yourself get caught in it, especially if you're younger. Never tell your mom directly. If you can, arrange for her to find out on her own. She deserves to know the truth, but don't do anything that would put you (or her) in any danger.
2006-07-07 17:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dad is divorced from your mother, that is your father's right. I would just stay out of it. Maybe your mom don't want to hear about it. Consider her feelings, when you decide what to do.
2006-07-07 17:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.....it's wrong but this is between a husband and wife. It'll be hard but it's not your place to enlighten her. I'm not sure about this because it could backfire on you but I think maybe you should tell your dad that you know. But that's a big maybe.
2006-07-07 17:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your mum, but tell your dad that it will not be fair to your mum if she finds out nor will it be fair on you if it leads to the breakdown of the family.
I am very sure your father will respect you for it.
2006-07-07 17:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by private_footballfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not up to you to tell your mom. I just recently started seeing someone after getting divorced. My daughter did not want to be the one to tell my ex...I told her it was not up to her, if her father had any questions, she should send him to me. The kids should never be put in the middle.
2006-07-07 17:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your dad and convince him to tell her. It's not your place to let her in on the info; you shouldn't be put or put yourself in the middle.
2006-07-07 17:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure all your facts are truthful and you know for sure before you say anything and one day when he's not home sit her down and just let it all out tell her how you found out and everything you know name address phone number everything but know all the facts first
2006-07-07 17:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has a right to know. Just be as gentle and honest as you can be.
2006-07-07 17:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by shominyyuspa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to be the one to do the dirty work. It will be kill the messenger stay out of it you will be better off. Let them work it out and she will find out on her own.
2006-07-07 17:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by rottenkid4560 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't but if it were me I'd tell my dad that I knew then leave it up to him what to do.
2006-07-07 17:09:22 · answer #11 · answered by Jill S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋