Marriage & Divorce - 5 July 2006

My husband & I are very much in love and are considering 'swinging' (adding others to our sexual play).

I like the idea, it's very exciting, but wonder if it's one of those things that 'looks good on paper', but falls to pieces when emotions are involved.

We've already decided no existing friends or neighbors and certainly NO FAMILY, which makes sense to me.

Can people be happy in an honest relationship with multiple sexual partners?

How? Why or Why not?

Thanks!!

2006-07-05 09:01:05 · 20 answers · asked by Miss G. 1

both me and my hubby keep forgetting ours

2006-07-05 08:50:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you need and have to do to obtain one?

2006-07-05 08:41:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

..take up a girlfriend and bring her home for a threesome How many of you married men out there would want this?

2006-07-05 08:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by Shebaby 3

and now people are brainwashed to treat natural mens' preference for young women as sick perversion, pedophilia etc?

can you deconstruct this taboo looking deep inside you and aksing yourself if this unnatural situation sanctioned by law and culture makes people really happier and why we did not need that for ages before?

2006-07-05 08:35:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not only does this man physically abuse me, but he spends all of our money at strip clubs.

2006-07-05 08:34:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been divorce for 3 years and she comes to all of our family functions even when it is holiday or reunions and I have our daughters for that day. My family doesn't seem to see how strange that is and how difficult it is for my new wife.

2006-07-05 08:30:22 · 32 answers · asked by hazeleyedguy_tx 1

2006-07-05 08:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by mamita200619 1

my husband and i have been married for almost two months. We have been living together for almost two years. i love him to death, he does so much for me and i know he wants to keep our relationship together, i do to, but its hard to give him sex, what am i doning wrong. how come i cant get in the mood. We hav a 10 mont old. we work together and at work i look at him and i want him so bad and when we get home its 2 in the morning by the time we get to bed. I want to have sex with my husband more 2 times a month

2006-07-05 08:18:53 · 58 answers · asked by B*Nessa 2

I haven't seen this man in 15 years but he talks to our Daughter and calls me filthy names mostly C#@T. I did nothing to him except divorce him. I was never unfaithful or anything.He is hurting our daughter by talking so filthy about me.She is now 24 but he has been doing this for 15 years. Why?

2006-07-05 08:16:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we basically live together but have to be apart for certain periods of time because of work.the problem is she knows all my friends and knows that all my friends know how much i love and adore her and will even die for her.i've never cheated on her and i will never cheat on my wife for all the gold on earth.we are both God fearing people but she always trips even if i meet after work with old school mates.its driving me crazy,cld someone please tell me how to deal with this because i dont want my fustrations to get the better of me.the other thing is that we work on differnt continets at the moment,i'm at home she is abroad.i tell her in advance with whom and when i am even if its spontaneuos i call her to let her know.what bugs me most she always says have fun and when i call her later she starts tripping that i'm having fun whilst all i basically do is talk about her all the time to my friends cuz ithink she is the best wife in the whole wide world.i love my wife but how do i cope?

2006-07-05 08:11:57 · 29 answers · asked by Q E 1

My husband and i got married in April. i am pregnant and we have moved to a new state and bought a house together. we are both 25 years old.



when we were dating my hubby and i lived alone with my 6 year old from a previous relationship. when we moved out of state(in dec) his brother had to come with us. my hubby works full time and i stay home. everything sounds good up to there,. the problem is that his brother who is 27 (i am 25 and so is my hubby) has a learning disability. i am expected to take care of him. everything is a problem,... you have to remind him to do everyday things like brush his teeth. I am tired and feel stressed out. so what do i do? I cant take this anymore. should i be the one to leave my house that i paid half of to accomidate his brother or should his brother be the one to leave? and how much is to much for me to do? hoe do i work around this woithout hurting my marriage? I love my husband and we have no issues other than this

2006-07-05 08:10:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

but i discovered it through a keylogger and it is now over but there was so many hurtful things that i found out from reading his emails. i just need to know how to truly let it go. ive forgiven him but i think about it constantly. i thought about going to counseling but i live in a small town and there are no counselors here on my insurance provider list. the closest is about 65 miles away and that is too far. sometimes i just feel crazy but i cant make it stop hurting.

2006-07-05 08:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by starla 3

2006-07-05 08:07:39 · 9 answers · asked by ahrtracy13 2

I cheated on my fiance and when he found out It made him love me even more. Now were getting married and I can't seem to stop thinking about this other guy. I havent seen him since but we text and email all the time. Can anyone give me some insight on what to do. I love my fiance and want to get married but I guess I want my cake and eat it to.

2006-07-05 08:05:33 · 13 answers · asked by ROCKSTAR 1

I drove by and saw her car there. I've given him plenty of chances and asked leading questions, but he has said nothing about it.

2006-07-05 07:58:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

It can be something he/she has done or a place they have taken you to.

2006-07-05 07:55:49 · 9 answers · asked by kristin22 4

2006-07-05 07:54:47 · 14 answers · asked by electrican756 1

I do not get my fiancee. we have been together for 3yrs. he is constantly thinking i would cheat on him. if i do something nice for him, he thinks I have cheated on him. For example, he was gone out of town for a week due to work, he had a very bad week, his birthday is in 2 weeks and i thought it would be nice for him to be pampered and get his gift early due to having a bad week. well, his first thought was that I had cheated and was giving him gifts so he would not think it. I spent $200 on him. I was only thinking of him and being nice, trying to make him feel better. I made him a nice dinner, and even got his things ready for a shower. also, he said he put "something" somewhere to see if i did have a man in the house and now it is moved and it proves i cheated to him, it answers his question he says. I have no idea what he is talking about. all i did was work and sit at home missing him, calling him, texting him, the whole bit. and now for being nice, i am accused of terrriblestuf

2006-07-05 07:52:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you tell your loved one without hurting their feelings that they are getting fat, you love someone for who they are, but however when you see someone you are atracted by looks first before you ever talk to them, my wife has gained alot of weight in her arms which I feel is unattractive and in her thighs and a little in her stomach and back, but the arms look terrible. She is a stay home mom and has plenty of time to excersise but dont, what can I do before she becomes unattractive to me? And yes I am in shape and work 12 hours a day and still find time to excersise.

2006-07-05 07:51:08 · 11 answers · asked by The King of All Answerer's 4

i've just been thru the most painful break up.... break ups from past boyfriends were not as painful as this one.... and I ended up still having nice feelings for them afterwards..... i'm not sure about this one though.... i don't think i will be able to get over him... what do you think?

2006-07-05 07:38:55 · 20 answers · asked by wildflower 2

Does anyone have any numbers for me to call? The Knot.com used to have this information for each state, but I can't find it anymore, so if someone could direct me to that page I would GREATLY appreciate it!!! Thanks!!!!

2006-07-05 07:37:00 · 6 answers · asked by pinkmarie 2

Would you suggest a book? (Please do not pick the Bible, or any other religious text). My spouse and I have had years of marriage, and we never have gotten this upset at each other before.
We know we have shortcomings, but it is too easy for us to think we are the ones in the right. How do we stop this crazy Merry-Go-Round? Do you have a program or a book or any hints on how two people who are almost married 20 years can get it together again? I must admit I feel both hurt and angry.We have avoided this so long, so it became this big a problem. Could it be our families? Our lack of friends? We have no kids, so you would think we have plenty of time for each other. We can hardly afford therapy, both in money and time. We both work a full day and then some. I just feel so tired, and life seems so pointless. I have looked for some book for us both to read, but there are so many. Any suggestions for anything?

2006-07-05 07:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by Too Curious 3

2006-07-05 07:31:51 · 38 answers · asked by yummyutoo 1

And are you married or not to someone like your dad? & for men do they marry someone like there mother? Just curious!

2006-07-05 07:20:55 · 40 answers · asked by Sugar Magnolia 6

The details are that the new bride dosn't want anything that any old girl friends may have used in her new home. Any and all things must go weather they can afford to replace it or not at the time. Not only the bed but dishes, linnen, towels, gifts, drinking glasses, etc. According to her all these things carry bad energy. God she says his spoken to her telling her the bed must go, and the other items she throws in for free. P.S. Most of her stuff is exzempt.

2006-07-05 07:20:35 · 17 answers · asked by Her man 1

mainly married women , no matter what i do theres always a women wanting me to cheat with her and i usualy cant refuse

2006-07-05 07:08:03 · 10 answers · asked by fordstrong4u 1

Do you know the day you fell in love or did it just happen gradually and you relized you were in love?

2006-07-05 07:01:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have become quite good friends with a guy online but I would never let it become more than an online relationship. Is that cheating with my hubby?

2006-07-05 06:59:57 · 20 answers · asked by BellaDee 1

I got married to my first husband because I was pregnant, not really because I loved him. We "lost" the baby and he basically abandoned me during the whole ordeal. We've been separated almost a year and the divorce was finalized a few months ago. I feel that I've moved on and that I now know better what I want out of a life long partnership. I'm not out looking for a husband but is it too soon to be keeping myself open to the idea already?

2006-07-05 06:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by arizonagirl1981 2