Marriage & Divorce - 5 July 2006

2006-07-05 18:40:47 · 22 answers · asked by a k 1

I found some suspicious things about hubby on internet. I asked him what is going on. He never gives me straight answers and he always shuts down. He says he wants to work on our marriage, but will we be able to? He seems like he is hiding something from me and he doesn't want to admit to whatever he is doing. Is counseling going to help? Or is this going to ultimately going to end up in divorce? I've never pried into his personal accounts before, and this is the first time I've wanted his passwords... he said he will never give them up, but he loves me and wants to be mine forever... does this make sense to anyone? I love him, but I just don't know how to deal with this anymore...

2006-07-05 18:26:03 · 4 answers · asked by Mimo 1

After almost 10 years of marriage my husband cried foul after marrying under the knowledge that we had a swinging lifestyle. We both swung, he with my girlfriends and me with other girls. But as soon as I wanted to swing with a guy he cried foul, took all our joint funds behind my back, refused to talk, and left.

A double standard?

2006-07-05 18:17:01 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty Little Italian Girl 2

2006-07-05 18:11:35 · 7 answers · asked by Damaila 2

I am married to my wife for four years and love her dearly. However, the past year has been unhappy because of her children and her spending habits. I am angry with her over this, but I cannot talk to her without her bringing up my faults which i am convinced are triggered over her irresponsibility and the demands she puts on me.

2006-07-05 18:09:45 · 5 answers · asked by breeze1 4

i have been married to my husband for 10 yrs now. ive known him since i was 14 and knew that he was married one time before and i knew he had a son. well when the baby was 5 months old his wife said she was going ti visit family and she never came back. his son is now 19yrs. old and we have 4 other children in the ages of 14, 4, & 3.we talk about it and he always gets down around the holidays and his sons birthday.however i have located his son and i told him i found him and i asked him did he want to contact him, and he says he dont know. i want to contact his son and tell him where his father is and try to reunite them. do you think i should do it and not tell him until we get a date set or should i let him make that call on his own. i think hes nervous and is afraid that his son might hate him or be angry with him. so please if there is anyone out there who can give me advice please let me know .

2006-07-05 17:58:09 · 6 answers · asked by curious 2

I sometimes even sleep with them in toilets and there cars in my lunch break.....I am thinking I should try and sleep with the other 20 just so it is fair as they all no what I am up 2.......My partner of 5 years also doesnt no......I no this is wrong but I want to continue. Your thoughts please.

2006-07-05 17:53:16 · 40 answers · asked by t j h 1

A young man told you that he wanted to save sex for marriage....that he wanted he and his wife to be virgins before marriage?

2006-07-05 17:47:13 · 33 answers · asked by Joe 5

I married July 2, 1971, divorced November 1994, remmarried November 2004 to the same man. Don't we use our first wedding date to celebrate?

2006-07-05 17:44:23 · 7 answers · asked by Jean P 1

She has stopped taking the drug, but it has left her with only the memory that I'm the problem. She had a spiritual event occur during her hypo-mania & only sees what happened to her as a good thing, not realizing the terrible anxiety she experienced. It has left me walking on eggshells around her trying not to upset her. She has lost all desire for sex & sees it only as my evil desires. I have become a problem in her life, not the love of her life we experienced before.

2006-07-05 17:43:34 · 8 answers · asked by G A 1

he is always putting me down in little ways that most couldn't even pick up on, but I notice. It's like emotional abuse. Why are men so mean?

2006-07-05 17:34:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is this when someone asks a serious question , example a family/or a relationship issue that u want help with and then u got people on here that are totally rude a**holes about it.

2006-07-05 17:30:51 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay...this is too much for me...but I love him and I am trying to deal with this. He has an ex wife who he has paid the mortgage on for the last 8 years. Last year, when we were separated, he bought a house with a GF and now has that mortgage to pay for....they split up when she realized he still loved me...He is now trying to sell the house of the ex wife to pay off part of the loan he made when he bought the new house....He has one more month to sell the old house....and has been spending all of his time trying to repair it to sell. I feel neglected and also, somewhat angry, that he bought this new house with the "old" girlfriend. It is also one house away from where his parents live, who also are raising his two children. I live in a very nice area and own my home. I don't see myself ever moving into the house he has recently bought. Whoever renuvated the place did a horrible job, besides the fact that he used the other gf to buy it with......what are your thoughts.

2006-07-05 17:17:34 · 27 answers · asked by JJ 2

Just wondering how many married people do not sleep together. Just the physcal act of sleeping together in eather a different room or a different bed and why?

2006-07-05 17:11:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been with my husband for about 10 years and help him raise his daughter. I watched her grow into a young lady. She was raised by her dad and me, while her mother moved on with her life and new family. Now that my step-daughter is grown, her and her mother is pretty close. She tells her mother everything about her dad. How well he's doing and all. For some odd reason, I felt like a fool. After all these years with this child, she always respected me but i don't have any kids but her. She never gave me nothing for a birthday, mother's day but sometimes on christmas. I give and gave this child so much support and money threw out these years, now i feel like a dam fool!!. Everyone got something even her mother that never gave, gets something not me. Should i mention this to my husband or keep asking god to reveal more to me?!

2006-07-05 17:11:16 · 8 answers · asked by FOXXTAIL 2

2006-07-05 17:10:40 · 4 answers · asked by amber_onay 1

Have any married women here ever had an affair? How did it start, why did you do it, how did he find out and what was the end result?

2006-07-05 17:09:49 · 8 answers · asked by CJ 2

I notice that alot of men tend to cheat with women who are less attractive than their girlfriends. Is it because the other women provides something that their girlfriend doesn't, or is it because they can actually be on the down low with a female they would not normally date in public???????

2006-07-05 17:07:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

an exact, obvious and the simplest way to find out

2006-07-05 16:56:55 · 10 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6

2006-07-05 16:55:55 · 18 answers · asked by a_moyars 1

My husband got a call from his mother stating that, she was taking our kids to a cook-out. After 5 minutes on the phone. All i heard my husband saying fine, fine fine. I asked were the kids going with your mother all he said was to a cook-out but with who. He don't know. My husband and mother-in-law are very close and tell each other everything now he don't know. I found out by my kids, that they went over my husband ex-baby mama house for the cook-out. I feel very hurt about this because i felt she should had ask me also, knowing i dont care for this fake holy-walker!! I feel like my mother-in-law step on my toes again and my husband think i am crazy. My mother-in-law is crazy about this woman and my husband just happy that his mother and her are close again. I feel betrayed by them both. Please someone out there, help me!! I need all the advice i can get. Kids are fine had a nice time. But i just don't want them around her and her family.

2006-07-05 16:55:23 · 10 answers · asked by FOXXTAIL 2

blame me for his mistakes & telling me that its unfair ruling his life, "he just wants to enjoy life".Im full and ask him f he wants a separation, he said its ok as long as my little boy will be left to his care.I worked 8 hours a day & my travel time is 4 hours.what will I do?pls give me sign and strength....

2006-07-05 16:53:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What did u do to get over it. did u break up with that person.

2006-07-05 16:30:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll start by saying this, we were a military couple. We had been married 13 years and she was deployed, before she got back I was deployed and forced to dump my kids then 13 and 10 at their grandpas house for 3 months. We then split up upon my return, built an incredible friendship in the process of seperation, got back together after about a year apart (not counting deployed time of 2 years) were happy or so I thought, then she volunteers to deploy, lies about it, makes me look like an **** because I was pissed, sort of like if your spouse were cheating and everyone knew except you but no one told. She's gone for 9 months advancing her career, I'm home playing supermom/dad. Now she comes back, dumps me with no good reason and feels she needs to provide none, and is pissed off because I moved out and am enjoying some serious soul searching time. Looking out for #1, worrying about myself exclusively. I take the kids, but for the most part I feel I'm owed time by myself. Am I wrong?

2006-07-05 16:28:20 · 3 answers · asked by je6 3

i am almost 6 months pregnant and think that my husband says things to flatter me..he tries..but i feel so unsexy to him.i am very open minded, so we joke around about just common people. and he makes comments about almost all kinds of skinny girls.. makes me feel really bad?? and suggestions.on how i can be the diamond in his eye?

2006-07-05 16:21:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

was it worth it?
who apologized?

2006-07-05 16:18:42 · 22 answers · asked by ♪♥bored♣♫ 3

The non-custodial parent (father) makes appr. $400 gross weekly and the custodial parent (mother) gets cash welfare and food stamps only. Also if she marries someone new do they use the new husbands income as hers? Any help greatly appreciated.

2006-07-05 16:15:53 · 6 answers · asked by female33pa 2

2006-07-05 16:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by krazy kids 1

I dont think she was ever totally comfortable with marrying me because of our differnces..but she met this guy at work like 3 months ago and she wont stop ogoing on about him..and plus she is all Afrocentric now from her clothes to the music..she also stays out all night with "friends" i think this might be same guy as before but im not sure..I dont want to leave the house to do anything

2006-07-05 16:06:52 · 16 answers · asked by Real-Italian-Stallion 2

ok my boyfeind when we were just friend he would do anything just to see me he would walk all the way from his house if he didnt have a ride he would cancel any plans just to see me he would talk on the phone with me for hours about really nothing ya know how it is and now I have been with him for a 1 and a half and now I have to beg him to stay on the phone for more than 3 mins i have to beg him to do anything like we use to like to just go for walks and just talk but now he is to busy for every thing its like he always has an excuse I love him more than anything on this earth but i feel like he feels like he already has me and he cant loose me i have tryed breaking up for a while like a break to get him to appericate me more but it only worked for two day i will do any thing to make it work but he never HAS TIME FOR ME ANYMORE

2006-07-05 16:04:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous