my boyfriend?

Question

ok my boyfeind when we were just friend he would do anything just to see me he would walk all the way from his house if he didnt have a ride he would cancel any plans just to see me he would talk on the phone with me for hours about really nothing ya know how it is and now I have been with him for a 1 and a half and now I have to beg him to stay on the phone for more than 3 mins i have to beg him to do anything like we use to like to just go for walks and just talk but now he is to busy for every thing its like he always has an excuse I love him more than anything on this earth but i feel like he feels like he already has me and he cant loose me i have tryed breaking up for a while like a break to get him to appericate me more but it only worked for two day i will do any thing to make it work but he never HAS TIME FOR ME ANYMORE

I tryed to give hima nything he ask for

Answer 1

One of two things has happened. He either got laid, or you won't give it up.

Answer 2

it's my guess that he has somone else. he is keeping you on a rope in case the new girl doesn't work out .in other words he's using both of you. . when you let a boy see you care so much , he uses it to get what he wants from you ,when he's had that, he goes to the next girl ,same scene and so on pleeeesse do not beg anyone for anything. it belittles you to yourself and other people will laugh at you for being so openly naive.ignore him .people hate to be ignored. he will wonder why , since you have always been begging him for this and that,drop off totally. he will soon come running , if he really loves you .you can still be sad while you ignore him .when you see it is working you will be glad you took the time to do it and what's more , keep on doing it .it's the best way to get whoever you want for yourself. didn't you know? everyone wants what they can';t have .if you appear to him that you don't care, don't want him ,he will be worried that you might get someone else . don't take his calls, get someone to tell him you're out for the night ..leave him wondering, make him wait for you this time .

Answer 3

Stop trying so hard. It may be turning him off. Start taking time for yourself. I am sure you love him very much, but no woman should lose herself in a man. Start doing for yourself. When he calls hopefully you'll have time for him. If he feels the same way about you, believe me, he will not go anywhere. But you shouldn't settle for him taking you for granted. Take pride in yourself. He probably expects you to be there whenever he's ready for you. He probably expects your phone calls 20 times a day. Whenever he has time for you, you're there. Why are you settling for anything less? You deserve more attention, and if he's not giving it to you, you give it to yourself. Go out with your friends, meet other people. It won't be easy at first, but believe me, it will get better. Oh, you'll see, he'll notice!!! If it doesn't work, then he was not meant to be, there will be someone out there that will give you all the attention you need plus more.

Answer 4

Exactly, he got some, or can't get it. This doesn't mean you should give it to him. If he did all that to get his way with you, you deserve a lot better. I say you ditch him. He sounds like a jerk if you have to beg him to love you. Don't chase him if he doesn't wanna come, ya know? It might be hard to let go but it will be worth it when you find a guy who will appreciate you forever. If this guy really loved you, he would MAKE time for you. All relationships mellow out eventually, but this just sounds pathetic. He's a loser. Think about it....

Answer 5

sometime men do those things because they do have u they know that u aren't going anywhere and they figure they can do whatever they want cheat, etc. and u are so in love with them that u have a forgiving heart and forgive them and be right back together again girl forget that two day stuff try not talking to him at all try to take your mind off him leave out of time on a vacation or something don't have any contact with him trust me on this its going to be hard and its going to hurt you but it works try it and u will see a big difference.

Answer 6

Guys are like that.I mean most of them.They are really nice and appreciative at first...but when they got you,they are totally different.My past boyfriends were like that but now i met a guy(my fiancee) who was pretty much consistent ...not all the time but he really show me respect and try to appreciate me like from the start we were still dating.So you will meet the guy for you.I dont know about this one.

Answer 7

He's just not that into you anymore. If he really was interested, he would make time for you no matter how busy he is. Find a new man.

Answer 8

Stop chasing him.
Either he will start coming back, or he is gone.

If he is gone, I am very sorry.
Good relationships are hard to find.

But, if this happens, someone else will come into your life. And the next one will be better.,

Answer 9

i am sorry to hear that...but please do not beg him for anything....i know it will be hard, but just try not to call or see him for a few days...give him some space...if he doesn't respond to more space, then move on.......it is never easy, but time is a great healer. i think you both need space to think this out...

Answer 10

you know what i think you are absolutely right i think that just because he has you he can't loose you so just break up with him for a while and see if he appreciates you then.

Answer 11

umm.. honey i hate to break it to you but it sounds like he is cheating on you!!! no fense or anything but the truth can hurt sometimes.. and yeah ummm i would just find someone new! kk! ok!!