What did u do to get over it. did u break up with that person.
2006-07-05 16:30:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After my bf saved me from my mom and her hurtful actions, he got me to quit smokin, he told me to say **** highschool its a waste of time so i got my GED, and then i got my first job. i then got an internship at O Bee Credit Union, i was then hired on...i got my own car and was learnin how to pay bills. He did all this for me and showed me how to have fun and enjoy life...then he cheats on me with his families babysitter. i didnt know bout it and he said he wanted to figure out his financial problems without bringin me down...so i moved back with my ***** of a mom. cuz i loved him and didnt want him to get into debt. so there i was in a 60's trailer in my parents backyard in the winter..i had no heat and had to run to the house in the middle of the night just to pee. i was livin like that for a couple of months beggin my bf to stop doin wat he is doin and we can get thru the finances together. but he still wouldnt move back in with me. i started only seein him twice a week. it killed me, i was so depressed i was ready to just give up. then he asked to hang out, i was so excited we were on the way to the store so i coould buy him a clutch cuz he didnt have a job after his brother got in a car accident. thats when i got a phone call, this mom was askin for terry. when i told my bf who it was he snatched my cell phone from me and raced to the parkin lot IN MY CAR. he got out and started sayin shh dont worry i will call her, but i cant right now. thats when everything fell together i knew right then and there he was cheatin on me. its the worst feelin in the world. the worst thing yet is i considered his mom to be my own and she knew the whole time, his whole family knew and the didnt bother to tell me. i was so betrayed.. its been a year since i found out and i am still with him. i continue to learn things he was doin with her. its heartbreakin but i cant break up with him for something he did over a yr ago. now i am semi happy and hella insecure
2006-07-05 16:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He lied to me about having a serious life-threatening disease caused by exposure to Agent Orange in Nam. He ended up DYING from a massive heart attack. After his death, I found out that he was lying to me about almost everything. I felt cheated (I was). Was embarrased, shocked, bitter. All this time I spent worrying about his alleged condition, I lost so much. Then to find out I was living a lie. Absolutely sickening to me.
But, they say that the best revenge is a good life. I'm now married and this jackass is still DEAD! I have "gotten over" him. But the effects of this still remain.
2006-07-05 23:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by kaschweigert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me during my last pregnancy with my best friend. I'm still trying to get over it.
2006-07-05 23:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheated, after I put him thru school for 5 years.
2006-07-05 23:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During our divorce he called me at work, and told me to do every one a favor and shoot myself... just like my brother did four years prior.
2006-07-05 23:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by drgnfly1012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has insulted me, belittled me, ignored me - all on small levels, nothing major. and no i did not break up with him. we are in love and hopefully nothing will break us apart! as our love is stronger than any fight/argument we could ever have. EVER.
2006-07-05 23:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by madison018 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband cheated on me.when i think about it i still get mad but i forgave him. we are still married.
2006-07-05 23:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋