2006-07-05 18:40:47 · 22 answers · asked by a k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Plus, we are close with our brother.
2006-07-05 18:43:44 · update #1
Don't do anything that requires you to trust his spouse.
All you can really do here is protect yourselves, not him or his spouse.
2006-07-05 18:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he loves her, you have to accept her for him. She may seem like a bad person in others eyes but theres someone out there for everyone whether they are nice, mean, fat, skinny, a liar, bully etc. and she just might be the one for him, support him as she will soon be part of the family also. But if your feeling about her is really strong, talk to him about it with your other siblings there. Maybe try to provide facts. If he still wants to marry her. Stay out of it.
good luck :)
2006-07-06 01:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you trust who he is marrying. i mean you can't stop two people who loves each from getting married to each other. but what i am saying you must let your brothers heart take it's chances. because someday he might get hurt by the person he loves alot. but have you told him you don't trust hie soon to be wife. and if you did what did he say.
2006-07-06 01:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by lilkobe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a big boy . . . let him live his life. It's very possible that his fiancee isn't as bad as you seem to believe. The other side of that coin is that you are completely justified and he will find out soon enough. Either way, just be supportive of his choices and bite your tongue.
Good luck!
2006-07-06 01:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing you can do. If you do find something and tell him chances are she will turn it around on you and could ruin your relationship with your brother. Sometimes the best medicine is to let him find out on his own.
2006-07-06 01:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
catch her doing something that your brother would think she would never do. vidoe tape her going out with some family memebers and try to catch her dancing with a guy and try to see if you can get her to hook up with someone else, if she is a bad person she will fall into this trap like a tramp.if she is really bad then you need to get her out of this family fast. have one of your friends pick up on her or one of your attractive friends or family memeber.good luck.
2006-07-06 01:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Even though you're close and don't approve of who he is marrying he will be more hurt/ mad with you if you don't support his decision. If she is really bad for him he will eventually see it, if not well just be thankful it's not you.
2006-07-06 03:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by Gwendolyn Beatriz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not interfere! Respect and support the marriage. This is his choice not yours. If it doesn't work out you won't have been part of the problem. You also need to realize she will be his closest kin not you.
2006-07-06 01:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can have a talk with your brother and tell him your concerns. However, the one thing you must remember is he will make the final choice. Don't drive him away,and please be supportive no matter what decides.
2006-07-06 01:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by faces1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk w/ your brother about your feelings. He should at least listen, even if he doesn't agree with you. If he doesn't listen, then chances are he has some doubts, too, and doesn't want to believe them, or he could just be blinded by his emotions. But talking about it with him, I believe, could be good.
2006-07-06 01:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Turmoyl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋