Marriage & Divorce - 5 July 2006

I am sleeping with my husbands three brothers and his sister and I sometimes be a bit naughty as well... I love my husband but dont wana stop what I am doing as they all pleasure me in different ways........your thoughts please?

2006-07-05 11:28:20 · 58 answers · asked by t j h 1

This sounds like an easy question but it's not. My husband and I had been, ahem, "around the block" quite a few times before meeting each other, and now it all seems so "been there done that". It's a very special relationship, but when it comes to sex we hit a blank wall. We're both over 40 and I can't come up with anything new! It's very frustrating, and getting to a point where we're losing our libido. Has anybody heard about this problem? I haven't seen or heard about it at all! Please tell me there's hope!!! Any and all ideas will be tried out. Thanks.

2006-07-05 11:26:40 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3

I have a 6 & 8 year old. I have been divorced about 3 years and my kids live with me. In keeping with tradition, I still allow my boys to go away each summer with my ex's parents. His parents go for 2 weeks, I let the kids stay for 1 week....there is no way for the kids to contact me during that week. Each year there is an argument over why they can't stay 2 weeks. They are good to my children, but let the kids do whatever they want. When my kids come back after only a day with them, they are demanding,rude, & cranky from being spoiled.....so you can imagine after a whole week. My in-laws, mind you, sometimes talk to me, sometimes ignore me, so things aren't exactly warm & friendly anymore.....but I dont' want to punish my children for that, so I let them go. Don't you think that no matter WHAT the circumstances, a week is more than enough for kids that age to be away from parents? They tell the kids, "we want you to stay, but mommy says no." I want to say no vacation at all!

2006-07-05 11:26:37 · 9 answers · asked by paintgirl 4

Do you think that the work that a relationship requires is worth the effort. Personally, if I had known 25 years ago what I know now I would have stayed single forever.

2006-07-05 11:26:27 · 9 answers · asked by tcb396 2

I am completly in love with my fiance and cant wait to begin our life together as a married couple, but his ex missus is a total maniac who is with holding access to his daughter. this frustrates me as not only is it unfair on him but also it is unfair to his little girl, is there anything i can do without aggrivating the situation?

2006-07-05 11:13:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 4 years and we have 2 wonderful sons. My husband is phenomenal with me and our boys. He bakes all homemade foods. He cares for our children without regard to himself. He would even tell me to stay in bed at night when our youngest woke up so I could get my rest. I could never ask for a more devoted and giving husband and father for our children. However, we got married because we got pregnant after only 3 months of dating and believed it was the right thing to do, since came from a preacher's family. We have never built a strong relationship. I feel deflated when he is around me and I have lost all my love for life. I know I have a special man, but is that reason enough to stay married if the love isn't there? Is the fact that he is so wonderful enough of a compensation for love?

2006-07-05 11:12:24 · 14 answers · asked by Trixie 2

My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.

2006-07-05 11:08:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for over a month. I've known my husband for 3 years. I love him very much and I would do anything to please him but lately he is not very interested in me. We don't really talk, we don't do much together, and there's also sexual problems. He does not initiate sex with me, I always initiate the intimacy. I don't know why, because I'm very open to him and I always try to look nice, and wear sexy things, but he's still not interested. We're newlyweds and we have sex maybe once a week or twice a week. There is no passion anymore and it really scares me because we haven't even been married a year.
Last night, we were in bed watching TV. I decided to just start going down on him. He didn't even pay attention. Instead, he kept watching the TV and laughing. He didn't even get a full erection. I cried last night until I went to sleep.
This wasn't the first night that this happened.
Is it too soon to throw in the towel on this? I am tired of feeling crappy about this.

2006-07-05 10:56:44 · 19 answers · asked by Courtney T 2

I honestly cant think of any successful marriages in people that I know. My parents are divorced. My friends parents are divorced. Do I have any hope of being happily married? Is there such a thing?

2006-07-05 10:53:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband gets kinda upset about the guys I work with. I don't flirt with them or anything and I think he is the best guy in the world. But when we have functions at work, he usually comes home and gets upset with me. My work environment is pretty laid back and kinda casual and there are frequent parties etc. even during work sometimes, but I would never think of cheating on him. How should I put him at ease about this?

2006-07-05 10:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband lost his business and we lost a beautiful life that we had built together. He has not been able to get together his employment with out bs layoffs or being fired(unfairly). Now he is gone because I complained. I was worried and he seems to have excuses but no job. Is it possible that he is working out his problem but cou;dn't do it with the stress of me and the kids. We miss him and love him. Does he realize that he is hurting us with no contact with us for weeks now and not knowing where he is living or if and when he'll be home?????? What is the best thing for a woman who loves her man to do???

2006-07-05 10:40:45 · 15 answers · asked by allthewaylabs 1

how does she talk to them without being flirty, is it okay to tease or joke around with men after you are married as long as it is not carried to the extreme? tell me how you think married christian women should act around other men? thanks!

2006-07-05 10:32:04 · 9 answers · asked by Freedom 3

I want to send a card that says F-U- or something like that.

2006-07-05 10:24:56 · 5 answers · asked by Questions&Answers 4

He comes from a totally different background (conservative type) I love him very much, but sometimes he just drives me nuts .....we always argue about things..I love him and i cant live without him, he's very nice and sweet and caring i know he loves me alot but..what can i do to make him change the way he thinks (old fashioned type of thinking)????

2006-07-05 10:24:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if your husband always presures you into things, is cruel in ways, and has a horrid temper? And you have no family of your own anymore, so you turn to his brother for help... and you find yourself attracted to him, and always comparing to two of them... and your husband never comes out on top.....and you might have fallen alittle in love with your brother inlaw? I would never act on it. Not unless the husband went beyond what he does now, and cheats on me, but is it really wrong to have fantasies of the bro-in-law?

2006-07-05 10:23:22 · 5 answers · asked by my hearts desire 1

My husband is disabled and uses a scooter to get around.As a result of his laziness he has gained two hundred pounds. He loves the Internet and is constantly Instant messaging hundreds of women from Asia. I have confronted him about this but he said he just wants a penpal, His computer wallpaper is an Asian Lady. I have in my possession several emails of him proposing marriage to these women.He also abuses prescription drugs and spends most of his day sleeping.or on the Internet with these women. I have my own life and really do not care what he does but my thoughts go to A) Should I divorce him B) beat the holy **** out of him C) Shut down the Internet and beat the holy**** out of him and then divorce him. Please ladies and gents I would love your input

2006-07-05 10:21:31 · 35 answers · asked by tattiehoker54 3

I would like 2 thank U all ! for the wonderful advice about a hour ago. I had more than 50 of U folks come back 2 me w/ advice...
You all have such big hearts, and there is ones out here that seem to have a care in u .
I would like 2 give my address out Social_butterfly_1962 and yes it is with yahoo.
uch warm hearts out here, there is still people out here that has hearts, I am not a drinker or anything eIse that could damage my body I have a few health proplems that makes it hard on me right now 2 get around.
What I was saying about a control frecks, He has my car & will not give it back, he told me he got this 4 his wife & if I'm not his wife I won't get it back. taht is the only thing he has to controle me with now. I will file 4 a divorce and should be able 2 get it back then, & looking though some papers I am not finding, He has put a REAL HURT on my credit The house is paid off in full.I Really feel like I need some support 2 make it though this. feel FREE 2 E-mail me, Thanx~

2006-07-05 10:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by Nancy D 2

2006-07-05 10:08:28 · 19 answers · asked by Babygirl86 2

Major lies about and thousands of dollars spent behind my back for an "addiction" have driven me to be callous and heartbroken I don't think I really love him anymore. He is like a totally different person. He say's he doesn't do that stuff anymore and that I should get over it and us move on with our marraige. But I have "moved on and forgiven" at least 5 separate times over 3 years and each time was worse than the time before. He always gets caught and every time I catch him, my heart breaks more. This last time was a few months ago and I never got over it. I feel like an empty shell. He disgusts me. We have been married for 5 years. We have a three year old son and he often sees us fighting and that kills me. We have been to counseling over the years and it has never done a bit of good. I don't have the strength to care about our marraige anymore. I just feel I would be better off alone and my son not exposed to our fights. Am I right to consider divorce?

2006-07-05 10:04:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am legally separated from my husband and pursuing a divorce. A comment he made just after we were married has led me to believe he was not legally divorced at the time of our marraige. According to his daughter he has a habit of living off of woman. His girlfriend at the time called me last christmas and stated the my ex was pursuing her to marry him right then and told her he was divorced. I was his third marraige (according to him) I also know that he is has a habit of telling lies. We have a property that is in my name only, (because he owed past child support) What is the best web site to find out marraiges and divorces. He has a missing seven years that he spent in texas. Any help is appreciated.

2006-07-05 09:53:28 · 7 answers · asked by MarriedorNot 1

when we got married i got him a jagermeister machine and for our first anniversary we decided to keep it simple we gave each other cards and went to the movies this next one i want to get him something he'll love. He is into computers, rock and punk music, drinking (he hopes to open a bar in the next couple of years), and weirdly enough stocks and that kind of stuff.

2006-07-05 09:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by bluenile 2

it's not fare to my hubby! but i would like a piece of him! he seem's to respond to me as in the same feelings but doesent advances to me . so i just want to seduce him and get it over with! but its a sin ! HELP!

2006-07-05 09:48:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-05 09:46:35 · 8 answers · asked by Noadonis 3

my husband was shot a month ago i thought that would make him stop but it did not he said he is ready to stop but still has not stop if anything he drinks more.

2006-07-05 09:45:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband was in a near fatal car accident over a year ago. He hasnt been able to pay child support because he's been going thru extensive surgeries. His accident ended his career as a police officer. He has offered to offset his ex's costs for daycare, which are $700./mo, by keeping his 2 children while she works. His child support is less than daycare so this gives her more money than if he were paying child support. She refuses the offer, then tells his 5 yr old that her daddy doesnt love her because he doesnt pay the child support. She also refuses to let him see his kids on schedule. Even though she's done so much to interefere with his relationship with his girls, and by doing so is only hurting them, we dont act in revenge and let her see and talk to the kids freely when they are in our custody like for his summer visitation this year.
However she continues to be nasty even though we are kind. How long should we continue to work with her when she repays us with hate?

2006-07-05 09:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by lilmissy 2

In our divorce decree it was stated that he pay half of the debt. He has failed to do so and I have paid all the debt off myself. He refuses to comply to the decree. I need to know what type of papers to file and how to go about garnishing his wages.

2006-07-05 09:40:50 · 15 answers · asked by towne_2_towne 1

My new husband has this woman whom he has known for 16 years. He had been intimate with her in the past, but after workinh on a relationship it never worked out. The problem I have is that she's continues to call for stupid reasons just to talk to him and he gets offensive when I express to him that I do not want her calling. It's not that I dont trust him. I just dont trust her. What to do? How to feel? Should I worry.. or just let it go? I've thought about calling her and seeing exactly what her motive is, but have been told that if I do that then she's accomplishing whats shes after and thats getting under my skin and causing me to be jealous. ANY ADVICE??

2006-07-05 09:29:15 · 13 answers · asked by Dawn 1

2006-07-05 09:28:19 · 13 answers · asked by rgrfatboy1 1

2006-07-05 09:13:52 · 36 answers · asked by artist 1

I have been w/ this man 25 years Got married 15 years ago He is a very bad drinker, and getting worse every day it seems,
I moved out a year ago and got a apt. on my own. I really like being alone and Do what I want to do> I am handi~capped
however, He DON'T hit me, His mouth gets carried away. & talks really bad to me. and then claime's He don't remember anything,
Is this common ? with a drinker ?
We have a son, Now 23 yrs. old now, I think our job together, is done now,
I called about getting a divorce this morning. I am not shur if I should or not. I do care 4 him, and have tryed everything I can 2 get him 2 STOP drinking
I like being alone to. and the peace. I have. no-one 2 controle me in anyway, He is a controle freck. I kind of fill sorry 4 him in one way
I'm not shur what 2 do in a problem like this,
I would like 2 find a E-MAIL BUDDY..
That IS or HAS gone though all this.
*PLEASE HELP* I need ALL the support I can GET E-Mail @ social_butterfly_1962 . Thanx

2006-07-05 09:02:49 · 50 answers · asked by Nancy D 2