I am legally separated from my husband and pursuing a divorce. A comment he made just after we were married has led me to believe he was not legally divorced at the time of our marraige. According to his daughter he has a habit of living off of woman. His girlfriend at the time called me last christmas and stated the my ex was pursuing her to marry him right then and told her he was divorced. I was his third marraige (according to him) I also know that he is has a habit of telling lies. We have a property that is in my name only, (because he owed past child support) What is the best web site to find out marraiges and divorces. He has a missing seven years that he spent in texas. Any help is appreciated.
2006-07-05 09:53:28 · 7 answers · asked by MarriedorNot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't really understand the question, it sounds like you have it pretty much taken care of by getting a divorce. If you really have no idea about the guy why did you marry him? It seem to me you would want to know a little more about the man you marry, next time don't get married until you know the man, his family and everything else about him.
2006-07-05 09:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thoughts is -- hire a Private Investigator. My second thought is -- talk to a lawyer. Both are expensive and, frankly, I don't trust either for giving you your money's worth.
I read some of the Answers above...
Perhaps you could start with the "girlfriend" that called you last Christmas. She may talk if she is no longer involved with your ex. Try to find out what counties he lived in and go through (or call the department of) Public Records.
You may also be able to get your local Police Department to run a check on him. This may cost only $5; they won't tell you anything unless he really has done something you should be concerned about. Explain your thoughts (that your husband may have been living double or triple lives...) and, hopefully, they will do sufficient searching.
Talk to the daughter. She sounds like she might be interested in helping. Pay close attention to the conversation for counties, etc., he may have lived in -- particularly, if she is not willing to help.
Also, if you can find any of his ex-wives, see if they are willing to talk. If what you believe is true, one of them (??) was married to him when he married you... maybe.
After you have sufficient evidence, talk to a lawyer (to explore your options). If, after collecting evidence, you still need facts, hire a PI. This will cut the costs of their employ to you.
I'll be back if I think of anything else that might help.
2006-07-05 10:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by cosmosclara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get on the county web site from the specific state in question to find out about marriages & divorces. Do a search to get the ones you need.
2006-07-05 09:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure as to the website, but you could also write to the courthouses in that state, it would mean spending money on it, but if you really want to know it would be worth it. All marriages are recorded in the county that he would have been married in.
it's worth a shot though.
2006-07-05 09:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your lawyer that specializes in divorce/family law. Any ideas you get here my just send you on a fox trail.
2006-07-05 09:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I don't know what to tell you but, I live in Texas what do you mean he was missing, maybe I could help you with that
2006-07-05 10:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by PYT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.USAMarrigeRecords.com
there are a ton of other web sites listed if you type :
search marrige and divorces
into google or blingo
2006-07-05 09:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋