2006-07-05 10:08:28 · 19 answers · asked by Babygirl86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
keep reminding him of things she did wrong
2006-07-05 10:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by phat and loving it 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sweetie...that is all chalked up to your self-esteem. If they have become really good friends throughout their time together you can't take that away from him. It's healthy to have a friendship with an ex. However if that's causing a problem between the two of you than you should politely confront him about it. Next time he wants to see her ask if you can come along. If he says no than it's time for you to move on even if it hurts you. If he isn't respecting your feelings as his girlfriend and his ex means more to him, you're better off finding someone who understands you and appreciates you. Good luck!
2006-07-05 17:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by noriahchapman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still going to her that says something... try to read between the lines... if you can not let me tell you what it means.... he still has feelings for her or he still wants to be with her... that means its time for you to dump him and find a man who will love you not be with you for whatever reasons... the world if full of man why do you want to stay with a person of this nature who is with you and is with his so called ex...
you do not need a man like that and have you thought of a future if you still want to be with this guy and he still contacts his ex... may be he will be in touch with her years down the road....
tell him that he is better of with her and as for you.. you will get something way better than that!!
2006-07-05 17:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything as long that their not doing anything bad to harm your relationship and always think positive that your better than her. remember being insecure will not bring good to your relationship. if you will keep on arguing with your bf about her you might push him away and choose her over you. so if you love this guy you have to learn to control your emotion good luck dear!!
2006-07-05 17:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about keeping him away. If he cheats on you, look at it as a blessing that you found out he was a scum bag as soon as you did. You can't change people. Ask yourself, "Am I being his girlfriend or his mom?"
2006-07-05 17:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Flutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to keep him away from her. Theres nothing you can do. If he loved you and respected you, he wouldn't still be around her. Dump him.
2006-07-05 17:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by AstonishingAries<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new man because if he wants her he will keep going back if you are what he wants he will be with you.
2006-07-05 18:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to do something, then he is not your's. YOUR boyfirend doesn't have any desire to spend with another woman. The guy you are talking about doesn't feel like he has to do anything to protect your feelings so its top to drop him like a hot potato.
2006-07-05 17:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by Earl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is right...its the way he feels too..its not just about u...but i guess if i was in yor situation then i would ask him a few questions first..like if he likes her or not...and if he says no then dont worry about it...w/e happends will happen for a reason! good luck and take care..buh bye
2006-07-05 17:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by teeny* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing only because they have that connection that theyve had for 4 years and they apparently still have that feel for each other so theres basicly nothing that you could say. you never know they are probably creepen.
2006-07-05 17:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by deebabyzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. People will do what they want to do and there's nothing you can do to stop them. If you trust him then you have nothing to worry about. If you don't then question if this relationship is worth your time and effort.
2006-07-05 17:12:27 · answer #11 · answered by Tara R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋