it's not fare to my hubby! but i would like a piece of him! he seem's to respond to me as in the same feelings but doesent advances to me . so i just want to seduce him and get it over with! but its a sin ! HELP!
2006-07-05 09:48:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just because you like this guy is no reason for you to divorce your husband... Your husband will be heart broken if you divorce him for a younger man. And your whole family will fall apart. don't ruin that with someone you think is cute.
sincerely,
Rachel
2006-07-05 09:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel Greene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look what ur going through is a lust problem and da only way to get out of it is da word of god every time u get that feeling bout the man go pray or read ur bible and see what happens it'll leave u trust me it does work and dont put ur self in a situation were u and him are alone it's to tempting and u r settin urself up for a fall so just dont do it if u love ur husband than u wont do it no matter how much u want the other man and try u spice up ur marriage keep it interresting if u no whta im saying pretend ur teenagers and have sex in the backseat of ur car sometime just act like a kid and enjoy life with him cause u married him
2006-07-05 09:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is totally natural for people to lust over some one else, that is human instinct. However, you are married and you committed and vowed to your husband. I do believe you will get over it. Try to be more exciting, creative with one another, and try new things with each other. You just might realize how much you love him and fall in love all over again.
Remember, it will be something new and exciting with your husband and you will forget about that younger man. Maybe you think about him because you are missing something in your own relationship. Make your self a better person, but you can look, but DON'T TOUCH!!!!!! Take your energy out in your husband.
2006-07-05 10:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think those feelings will go away. You do not love this younger guy. You need to have some fun with your husband. Fantasize about the younger guy if you have to, but I believe that you are in need of some excitement in your marriage. Do not look outside to fix something thats wrong with your marriage. Think about it, if you and your husband were hot and heavy now, do you think you would have started looking elswhere? I know thats hard to hear, but you just need a little sexual attention. And the place you need to get it, is from your husband. Go home and attack him!
2006-07-05 09:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is a sin and pls dont give in why ruin 18 beautiful years of marriage for some younger man who you will likely not even see again after the sex......you answered urself its not fair to ur hubby so dont do it wouldnt u just hate it if u knew he felt this way about a hot young sexy mama.....its not a nice feeling...dont do this it wud be selfish and stupid think about all he has done for you throughout life and if ur willing to risk it all for young and cocky...see i went opposite of u i found an older man to be wth cuz he loves me and cares for me deeply.....i thought wisdom came with age but sadly not in ur case..please grow up and dont ruin a beautiful thing.
2006-07-05 09:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO no no no no no no no do not do anything with anyone outside of your marriage. It will come back to bite you in the a**. It is also not fair to your husband. I would never even think of doing that to my husband. Why don't you put all this effort and seduce your husband.
2006-07-05 16:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by Apple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch what you do, remeber you cant have your cake and eat it too,lets sasy you fall in love with this guy and tel him and leave your hubby then it turns out in the loong run this guy uses you and leaves you alone?what if he loose interest in an older woman? what if he doesnt share the same about you? what if he doesnt even know you exist? what if all that happens? then you would have ruined your relationship with your friends and family and hubby most importantly.your friends will see you different, your family will look at you wierd and your in laws wont like you anymore.be careful what your next step is.good luck.
2006-07-05 10:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people live with the concept of "what he don't know won't hurt him"
Some couples actually have that agreement.. just don't tell me.
Others say no way!
Other say as long asyou invite me
It all depends on the agreement you and your hubby have. Stick with the agreement.
2006-07-05 11:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should of never gotten married if you were never really ready for full commitment but hey just think.. would you like it if your husband was wanting to do what you want to do?? Man people thease days just dont understand what Mariage is all about. people are more out to get what makes them feel good.
2006-07-05 09:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'd probably have a secret relationship with you but you'd have to seduce him. However, be prepared for a divorce and a lonely life thereafter.
2006-07-05 09:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋