I notice that alot of men tend to cheat with women who are less attractive than their girlfriends. Is it because the other women provides something that their girlfriend doesn't, or is it because they can actually be on the down low with a female they would not normally date in public???????
2006-07-05 17:07:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it is neither - Just my opinion - but I think people in general (NOT JUST MEN) cheat because there is a need that is not being met in their current relationship and the need that is not being met is usually an emotional need that has nothing to do with sex. For example a communication issue - if there is no communication in a relationship and one person in the relationship is desperate to communicate they might seek out a person that is willing to communicate with them and then the open communication leads to something more and henceforth you have a situation. However, some men seek out women to engage in illicit sexual activity that they wouldn't feel comfortable introducing to the one person that they truly love. My pastor told us something very interesting - Men put women into 1 of 3 categories
FREAK
FRIEND
FOREVER
Which one we end up in is up to us.
2006-07-05 17:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well leelee, being attractive or more attractive then the other girl doesn,t mean that the guy will like/love you any more or less. if there are guys out there that is cheating on there girlfriend/wife to a less attractive woman then maybe they have certain qualities that the other woman may or may not have,and besides who gets to label someone as more or less attractive then someone else? is it society? the same society that said a couple of years ago that thin is in to then reciprocate and say that big is now in. listen if you attractive people stop worring about what it is that the less attractive people are doing then maybe you can take the time out to see past your world and try to cater to your man,s world instead....
2006-07-06 00:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's part of it, but the one thing an ugly girl is going to do, that a pretty woman has a hard time doing (and with good reason-to some extent), SHE'S GOING TO DO EVERYTHING IN HER POWER TO PLEASE HIM.
And why not! Ugly girls never get the time of day and now here it is, a nice looking guy steps into the picture and she's going to appreciate everything he does for her (or to her). The only reason he's keeping you around is for the image and great sex (maybe). It sucks, but pretty women get the advantage that ugly girls don't get-they project through their looks, how great they are (even though we all know some pretty people can be psycho f*cks).
Dump the guy. Even if you don't beleive what I'm saying, the fact that he's cheating on you should cause you to dump him.
2006-07-06 00:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually saw this on a show, men that cheat are said to have a more primal need to spread their seed in order to have more babies. it's kind of an animalistic thing. I really don't think they can help it if they don't recognize it. Why the other girls have to be uglier is because they've already found someone they consider the most beautiful person. and the show said women who cheat are doing so most likely for the lack of emotional connection to their mate.
2006-07-06 00:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by pohter1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more often than not its for the thrill, maybe things have gotten stagnant with their present girls. also men who cheat often want the best of both worlds, they are looking for the perfect woman and they see the qualities that are lacking in their gfs in the girls they cheat with.
no such thing as a perfect woman but these people are willing to go too all kinda trouble to find it
very irressponsible
2006-07-06 00:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think men care about looks like a woman does.Afterall a plastic surgeon says when he does a breast implant its for other woman not men.Men just want a gal tht gives attention to them has a good personality ,listens to them .Men are easy really you can have them eating out of your hand no matter what you look like.I saw my boss have a affair and she was yuky ! His wife was super good lookin like a model.so there ya go!
2006-07-06 00:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't judge a book by its cover. Real relationships aren't based on superficial matters like looks - it's the heart and soul that matters.
2006-07-06 00:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ron D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think with their penises than there head. Some do not care who they hurt. Just as long as they can get their rocks off.
2006-07-06 00:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Possum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its either they used to do that or their girlfriends dont give them the satisfaction that other women do
2006-07-06 00:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by LOVER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are idiots. And the women, no matter what they look like, tell them what they want to hear so they feel better about their pitiful selves.
2006-07-06 00:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋