I think my wife is cheating with the black guy what can I do?

Question

I dont think she was ever totally comfortable with marrying me because of our differnces..but she met this guy at work like 3 months ago and she wont stop ogoing on about him..and plus she is all Afrocentric now from her clothes to the music..she also stays out all night with "friends" i think this might be same guy as before but im not sure..I dont want to leave the house to do anything

I think that because shes black and he is black that i cannot compete

Answer 1

dude u cant do any better so keep the gal that's whiling to have your babies cause she is prolly the only one. maybe if your lucky shes Les and will have a threesome with u. just keep eating your pancake donut surprise butterball and live with it. i,m sure u don't care as long as she feeds your fat a s s right.

Answer 2

Okay, so this is what you should do. Have a backyard bbq party and invite your friends and hers and include him (invite some of her co-workers). Observe how she and the other guy interact and you should be able to tell if it's more than a friendship. Don't embarass yourself or her during the party though. Wait until everyone has left and then confront her but be sure you are prepared for any consequences. It's up to you to decide if you still want her and if you do you'll actually have to make the effort to win her back...romanticize her.

Answer 3

Don't stay at the house anymore. You need to move on and make a stand that you will not be used and she needs to smarten up and love you the way you deserve to be loved without that guy around or you are leaving her and do it. Than go to singles groups and better your good points and work on your bad points. Meet some people that will give the respect you deserve not the horrible treatment that makes you feel all alone in this world. You're not alone but you have to stand up for yourself, positively.

Answer 4

#1, you should follow her and scare the **** out of her.
#2, I wouldnt sleep with her any more, god knows what she has now.
#3, revenge is the best way to a womans heart.

or chalk it all up and get some of this afrocentric gear shes raving about

Answer 5

Why should it matter if the guy is black or white? If she's cheating dump her butt. If you don't want her going out and doing things with other people cause you don't trust her, you have three options the way I see it.
1) get over your jealousy and mistrust issues
2) if they are valid issues, dump her
3) get off your lazy butt and go out with her...no woman is going to be willing to sit around the house constantly...they need to get out once in awhile.
Talk to her, confront her...just realize that if you do you had better be sure, cause if she isn't cheating she's not going to like being accused.

Answer 6

This is your wife, for goodness sake. If you don't want her out there, then put your pants on and get a life going here. Your question wreaks of boredom. Get out there, you sound a bit depressed if you ask me. Come on now. Start taking life by the balls. That's probably what your wife wants, some spunk in your marriage. Surprise her!!!

Answer 7

You dont want to leave the house! Well than just sit there till she gets a divorce and have her move!

Answer 8

maybe you should leave the house. offer to go out with her, and if she makes up some excuse, then that might be an indication that your suspicions are correct.

Answer 9

Hmnn, I think you and your wife- interests, personalities and expectations are not crossed.
She have drifting and there is nothing you could do accept ask her to choose or rather you choose what are you going to do.

Answer 10

well atalian man i think she deseves him then you werent good enough, get over it and find an atailian gal, they are the only ones who can put up with you.good lucck.