I found some suspicious things about hubby on internet. I asked him what is going on. He never gives me straight answers and he always shuts down. He says he wants to work on our marriage, but will we be able to? He seems like he is hiding something from me and he doesn't want to admit to whatever he is doing. Is counseling going to help? Or is this going to ultimately going to end up in divorce? I've never pried into his personal accounts before, and this is the first time I've wanted his passwords... he said he will never give them up, but he loves me and wants to be mine forever... does this make sense to anyone? I love him, but I just don't know how to deal with this anymore...
2006-07-05 18:26:03 · 4 answers · asked by Mimo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find him a mens group he can hang out with.
Preferably in a church group.
Unplug the comp. until he fesses up. But do it with the intention of helping him.
Do it gently. But do it.
2006-07-05 18:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get rid of the computer. Loan it out, but get it out of the house. Look into marriage counseling, if he doesn't want to go with you, go by yourself. I am sure the counselor will be able to provide some good answers for you.
2006-07-06 03:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Gwendolyn Beatriz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!
You deserve to live a life a peace, quiet, trust love.
If he wants to play, let him. On his own.
Life is too short to play sick, sneaky, selfish games.
Nothing worse than a sneak.
2006-07-06 01:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him on this matter or other wise you might soon be heading for a divorce . the reason he might have done this is he might have a woman he meet . my opion?
2006-07-06 02:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋