I do not get my fiancee. we have been together for 3yrs. he is constantly thinking i would cheat on him. if i do something nice for him, he thinks I have cheated on him. For example, he was gone out of town for a week due to work, he had a very bad week, his birthday is in 2 weeks and i thought it would be nice for him to be pampered and get his gift early due to having a bad week. well, his first thought was that I had cheated and was giving him gifts so he would not think it. I spent $200 on him. I was only thinking of him and being nice, trying to make him feel better. I made him a nice dinner, and even got his things ready for a shower. also, he said he put "something" somewhere to see if i did have a man in the house and now it is moved and it proves i cheated to him, it answers his question he says. I have no idea what he is talking about. all i did was work and sit at home missing him, calling him, texting him, the whole bit. and now for being nice, i am accused of terrriblestuf
2006-07-05 07:52:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's insecure and immature and possibly delusional from the things you've said. if you marry this guy you will live to regret it. His jealousy will only get worse with time and will destroy you phsycally, mentally or emotionally or all three. In fact it sounds like it has already started. Leave now for your own sake
2006-07-05 08:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him now. He sounds real crazy.Why would you want to be with him if he don't trust you?This sounds like it might get worse in time. Leave now.
2006-07-05 16:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a taste of how it will be when the knot is tied.
Run...run far...run fast.
Jealousy is a side effect of his own shortcomings.
2006-07-05 15:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out while u can cause he'll never ever change believe me i have one like that but i don't do things for him ..
2006-07-06 12:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by momofthesouth2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE NOW!!!!!!!! TRUST ME THIS WILL NOT GET BETTER I HAD A BOYFRIEND JUST LIKE THAT. HE NEVER CHANGED!
2006-07-05 19:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋