can never remember my anniversary?

Question

both me and my hubby keep forgetting ours

we always remember it like a month later, is that weird?? we`ve been married for 4 yrs. we laugh bout it cuz we keep forgetting

we just have had alot to deal with in the last several years with my hubby`s health and our oldest daughter has severe autism so we have our plate full.

Answer 1

Nope, not wierd. Blessed, perhaps!
I would agree, you must be perfectly matched, and you have a great sense of humour, and are very much in love, as well as having a lot of more important things on your plate to deal with.

My hubby and I forgot ours this year, too ... only our second ... we thought it was hilarious when we remembered. I am thinking this won't be the only time that happens for us!

(((((((hugs and blessings to you both)))))))

Answer 2

I can't remember anniversaries, or birthdays, or father's day, or mother's day, or just about any other date.

So I married someone who's good at remembering those things. My family is much happier now that they get cards on those dates, instead of an apologetic phone call three days later.

We also arranged our wedding date so that it would fall exactly one week after her birthday -- that way, if I forgot her birthday, at least I'd remember our anniversary!

Be grateful that you can both laugh about it; you'd be surprised how many people would have stress over it.

However, this is also a wake-up call that you need to take whatever steps are necessary to get more time together. Find someone to watch your special-needs child once in a while, and arrange for in-house dates after bedtime. It's hard to do what you're doing; you both deserve a little time alone, and a little time together, once and a while.

Answer 3

No, it's not weird; and it's nothing to be worried about. Just celebrate it when you remember. And if it's important for you to remember, then ask a friend or family member who is good at remembering things to remind you the next time your anniversary is close. Also, most computers have a calender that you can put in reminders. You could put in your anniversary, and then on that day, when you turn the computer on, it will remind you.

Answer 4

If you remember Xmas..lol.. make it a yearly tradition to buy each other a nice calendar for the new year and immediately mark your anniversary with a big bright red heart. Hang them by the phone and your desk or door so that their always in your face.
Congratulations on four happy years and a sense of humour.

Answer 5

Its OK to forget it temporarily if both of you are doing it. Just don't get to where it's being totally forgotten, that won't be sending a good message about the relationship.

Answer 6

Yeah, I think that is kinda weird that you both forget your wedding date LOL. Did you have a big wedding? If you didn't that may be why you keep forgetting it.

Answer 7

change all your passwords to your anniversary date ... for instance, if you were married on 2/14 make all you computer passwords "214" ... and buy a calendar and circle the date... set birthdayalarm.com to send you e-mail reminders... ask your friends and family to remind you... anything that will help!

Answer 8

It's just a date. Living everyday with that special someone is a Life. I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 9

I don't remember our anniversary and my husband takes that as a compliment. LOL

Answer 10

Sounds like you two are a perfect match.