i've just been thru the most painful break up.... break ups from past boyfriends were not as painful as this one.... and I ended up still having nice feelings for them afterwards..... i'm not sure about this one though.... i don't think i will be able to get over him... what do you think?
2006-07-05 07:38:55 · 20 answers · asked by wildflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXXXXXX Right now you can't see the daylight from the darkness but hang in there babe, it'll change. You may see a flicker at first but stay positive and you'll move on to a better man who treat you right and love you forever. Good luck hun XXXXXX
2006-07-05 07:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine, darling. Even if the pain never goes away completely, it becomes a much lighter burden as time passes. Get involved in something else, like school or work or other activities and work on yourself. Some you never forget, but to think on them doesn't hurt anymore, just a memory that hurts like when you remember being embarrassed or something.
2006-07-05 07:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Alysianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think about him. At all. Snap at people when they mention his name, turn of the radio when a song reminds you of him. You will never get over him. I know that's harsh, but you already knew it. You will be able to move on, though. Eventually. I broke up with a guy almost a year and a half ago, and it still hurts to think about him, but it's a good feeling too.
2006-07-05 07:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Reality Check 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will get over this (loser) just as you have the others. Time heals all wounds. You are still going through the "grieving" process from the loss of the relationship. There are lots more "fish in the sea" so JUMP IN and take a swim :)
mb
2006-07-05 07:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been asking myself this question quite a bit lately. Right now, I think that the deeper the relationship the more likely you are to carry some of it with you. You will get over him, but it will take a little longer and the baggage will be a little heavier.
2006-07-05 07:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wildflower- Sometimes dear that is the best love for someone. If you love enough to let them go they will see or feel that love. If it is mutual then they will come back. But in the mean time I would say the hunt is on! Have fun the sea of love is full of fish.
2006-07-05 07:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms.Wildflower will never unlove someone. You have selected the most suitable nickname for yourself. Cograts. Keep loving every one, you happen to meet.
2006-07-05 07:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by mann54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you define as the opposite of love.
I don't think the opposite of love is hate...the opposite of love is complete apathy - the person no longer elicits any emotional response in you at all.
So with that in mind, where are you?
2006-07-05 07:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is...it takes time...look at all his faults and the ways he hurt you...my divorce from my ex-husband was the toughest thing i ever went thru...i was even admitted to the hospital...he is my son's dad and he adopted my oldest son...we have been divorced 8 yrs and separeted 9yrs..it was a miserable time for me...now i look back on it and i cant even remember things about him really, even how he looked, i never see him and i have no feelings whatsoever...you will heal and in time...hugs...i'm sorry sweetie
2006-07-05 07:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be hard to get over the person u love that's if u truly love him true love does hurt
2006-07-05 07:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by sunshinegal0117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋