..take up a girlfriend and bring her home for a threesome How many of you married men out there would want this?
2006-07-05 08:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by Shebaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nice fantasy. Maybe a good choice for some couples but I think this generally brings on more complication than most are prepared for. For me, it's an appealing fantasy and something I have done with recreational partners so I do know it can be extremely hot, but it's best left as a fantasy in my current arrangement...
2006-07-05 08:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think Sarah may be right in her answer. Porn is altering how you view your sexuality. Most normal hetero guys who see an unclothed male actually have a measurable threat response go off in their brain unconsciously. Your reaction is very very rare. It's possible that you are bi curious but I think that's unlikely (unless you've fantasized about men all your life up till now but you don't mention anything like that). It could be born of some childhood trauma too. It sounds like it's not men you are attracted to, but rather a fascination with the penis. That's sort of a different thing than homosexuality but could be related. It's too complex a question to answer without further details.
2016-03-27 05:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's the best of both worlds, isn't it?
On one hand, it would mean he was still attractive to someone other than his wife (otherwise she wouldn't agree to do it) and he'd get the excitement of being with a new person intimately.
On the other hand, it would mean his marriage and relationship with his wife wouldn't be at risk (as it would with an affair) because she'd be in on it, and support it.
So I don't know if this is something that all married men actively fantasize about -- I certainly don't -- but if my wife asked me "hey, what would you think if I brought home [some woman] so that we could all fool around", I'd certainly say yes (if she was someone I was comfortable with and found attractive.)
2006-07-05 09:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to have a threesome with someone you already know, but hell yeah bring the girls on
2006-07-05 08:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by yibpub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like my wife to feel free to do whatever makes HER happy and fulfilled. I don't really mind if she takes up a lover of either sex, the only thing I ask is for her to be open and honest
2006-07-05 09:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice fantasy, but having had a three-way years ago, it doesn't work out for me.
I really prefer a one-on-one with a woman (and actually, I'd prefer my wife).
2006-07-05 08:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by docscholl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be ok with me. She could bring a guy home too and I'd watch her getting hard from him too. But her and another girl would be my first choice
2006-07-05 08:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by mikecook987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, if I had wanted threesomes, I'd have done them while I was single.
2006-07-05 08:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one of those thinga that any guy would love to have but in practice while in a committed relationship it will never work
Best if it just stays a fantacy
2006-07-05 09:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What happen if the wife take up her gay male co-worker to her bed with her husband?:)
It is all about fantasy!
2006-07-05 08:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋